Ally-65 Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Just when I thought I was on the mend... another bad day, when I can't concentrate on anything but HIM. I'm trying so hard to be positive. It's been 6 weeks now, of NC from me. I guess it was the fact that it was his birthday on sat and I saw him in the street yesterday. I ignored the birthday and didn't acknowledge him in the street, even though he said hello. Maybe I'm feeling abit guilty about that too. But I'm not sure. I certainly haven't got any reason to. Link to post Share on other sites
Damien Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Hang in there Ally , I know that feeling all too well. 10 months since my breakup and I'm still thinking out my ex but I'm not hurting / thinking about her as much as before! First 2-3 months were pure torture for me. You shouldn't have to feel guilty about not replying back either, forget about him, treat him like a complete stranger. You WILL feel a lot better in time, trust me. If you need someone to talk to by the way, I'm here. I'm a great listener apparently Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ally-65 Posted July 11, 2011 Author Share Posted July 11, 2011 Thanks Damien. That's nice to know. I might take you up on that. Link to post Share on other sites
shortee143 Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Ally...those bad days always creep up. I am having one today, crying..and it has been 4 months! We aren't NC due to mutual friends, and it is all soo hard. I hate this! hang in there, the bad days will def slowly decrease, and the good increase, but gosh the bad ones are terrible. I feel like day one today. Link to post Share on other sites
FinOuch Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Six weeks is not a lot of time at all! It's been a little bit more than that since I got kicked to the curb...and I can honestly say that even just looking at a photo of him would likely be enough for me to backslide. And you...you had to deal with the lingering fact that his birthday just passed AND you bumped into him before you were ready. You know what? That would be enough to make anyone's day bad! Give yourself a break. You've managed to stay strong and maintain NC. You've been on the mend, and now it takes nothing short of a major event to stir up all that turmoil in your heart that you've started to manage better in past weeks. And don't ever feel guilty about not responding to his hello. It beats all the nasty things you COULD'VE said to him. He should be grateful you didn't tee off on him. Link to post Share on other sites
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