duhduhduhdan Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 I was at a party with some mates, and there were maybe 7 or 8 other people there that i'd never met before, 5 were girls. I have only kissed 1 girl before and I was so drunk I could barely remember it... but this party was different, no one eneded up really drunk, in fact most people were just a bit tipsy, including myself. So I went to the party with the attitude "I'm gonna kiss someone tonight" I tried to go in with a possitive attitude.. and somehow I managed to get the courage to try and kiss this girl I thought was quite hot. When I say "somehow managed" It's because I had almost no self confidence, no self esteem or any general confidence really. So to the point of all this... this girl rejected me, then later on I over heard her and 3 of her friends, who i'd only really spoken to briefly at the party. And the conversation was basically about how this girl was disgusted by me and how it was horrible when i tried to kiss her (being me, not the way i went for it) and the other 3 all said how they were sorry for her, and how ugly I am and tht why would I even bother trying to kiss a girl. As I said earlier, when I went to the party, I had almost no self confidence ect.... but I don't have any at all... I spoke to my best friend about it and he said it would all be fine.. but he doesn't understand what it feels like, because he has a different girl every month and has a girl in each arm at every party.... he doesn't understand how it feels to be ugly and not wanted by anyone... I don't know what to do to get my confidence back up, because I dont want to be a loser my whole life... what can I do? Link to post Share on other sites
tb24 Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Well firstly, just trying to kiss a girl without any kind of build-up will not work well. Was she expecting you to kiss her? It sounds like she wasn't. When they said "ugly" they were probably referring to your demeanour more than your looks. The way someone acts can have a huge impact on the perceptions of others and can have an impact on "attractiveness". Link to post Share on other sites
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