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NC broken by me then broken by her...


otherfish

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Long story short, 2.5 year relationship ended in late March. NC til 7/6/11 when I wished her a Happy Birthday and asked if I could take her to dinner. She replied back saying, "Im sorry, I cant, its not a good idea but thank you for the offer". I responded, "if you ever need anything dont hesitate to contact me, take care". Then silence until today, when she sent me a "blank" text. I responded, "please dont tell me that was an accident?" She replies back, "Im sorry...Im in the middle of something, that was an accident...I hate this phone". I sent a text back saying, "thats too bad. I wish you the best, take care." .....Now, back to NC......

 

So, I need some input. Was this "blank" text really an accident or is she throwing me breadcrumbs?? Im looking at the timing, we didnt have an ounce of contact for over 3 months than I text her Happy Bday and invited her to dinner and she declines. Then in less than a week she sends me a "mistake" "blank" text. Is something fishy here???

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I'm sorry, but it very well does appear that this was just a mistake. On the chance that it isn't... it doesn't really matter, does it? Unless she is forthcoming, it probably doesn't mean she's changed her mind or her heart. Just assume it meant nothing, continue on as you have been and put it out of your mind (just my 2 cents). Good luck!

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Ok, seriously, now about 1hr ago....another blank text. There is no way this was another "accident". Any advice as to what is going on here?

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Doesn't matter. Ignore it. Until she she's willing to actually tell you something, don't reply.

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Agreed.

 

This morning she sent me a text saying that she was sorry for the blank text and that she is not playing games. That her phone has a glitch and when she is texting someone for some reason it I get "magically" included in the text which is why it is blank....??? Okay, I guess, I believe that? :confused:

 

Either way, NC......is best.

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Agreed.

 

This morning she sent me a text saying that she was sorry for the blank text and that she is not playing games. That her phone has a glitch and when she is texting someone for some reason it I get "magically" included in the text which is why it is blank....??? Okay, I guess, I believe that? :confused:

 

Either way, NC......is best.

 

Nah, I agree with you, it's not a mistake, she's for whatever reason trying to keep you thinking of her..

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