reimeivn Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 There is this memory that was awakened in me today that I wanted to share. You might have some kind of memory like I do, that clearly told me to stay away from this ex of mine. We, me and the ex, were driving this one afternoon when I saw a lady riding a bicycle with her baby on the back. I mean the baby was in its own, stroller kind of thing, which was attached to the bicycle. I thought it was cute how the baby can just lay there in the back and be chilling. so I told him that its cute, and I would do something like that to my baby. You know what he said: Well so your baby is gonna be hit by a car like immediately. Like... Bam. And then he is done. I do not remember what I said after that but he certainly did not admit that he just said something really cruel. Especially when he told me that he would love to have a mixed baby... he hinted that he would love to have a baby with me. A guy that says something like that just not gonna be my husband whatsoever. So its good that we broke up. Now I can find the one. Link to post Share on other sites
Penneyrix Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 Uhm, I'm not trying to be rude, but good luck with that because if I have learned anything from living with my boyfriend and his roommate, it's that men says the stupidest **** all the time. I'm aware that it was really cruel, but I'm pretty sure that most men also enjoy a good dead baby joke for some reason. It's just the way most men are, NOT ALL, just a lot of them. They can be pretty screwy, and morbid, but we love 'em. I'm sure it was harmless. I probably would have taken that as an attack at my intelligence more than anything, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author reimeivn Posted July 12, 2011 Author Share Posted July 12, 2011 wow i dont care what makes him say that but its the fact that he thinks its a smart thing to say even after i said it is not funny to me, and it hurt my feelings, is just unacceptable. i should have dumped him long time ago. no seriously i dont say things like that to any of the things that come out of his mouth, so i expect him to do the same. Link to post Share on other sites
Author reimeivn Posted July 12, 2011 Author Share Posted July 12, 2011 and yeah i didnt live with him, no talking about living with him and his roommate. i am a girl, and more than that his gf, i dont want to put myself in the place of his roommate for him to share things like that with me. we rarely saw each other he should have kept it in his stupid mouth. Link to post Share on other sites
Eeyore79 Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 I thought it was cute how the baby can just lay there in the back and be chilling. so I told him that its cute, and I would do something like that to my baby. You know what he said: Well so your baby is gonna be hit by a car like immediately. Like... Bam. And then he is done. I don't see the problem. He was just pointing out that it's dangerous to put a baby in a carriage behind a bicycle because it can easily be hit by a car and die. I wouldn't do that with my baby - I agree it's extremely dangerous - no sane person would take their baby out onto a traffic filled road and tow it behind a bicycle. Link to post Share on other sites
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