SpinScratch Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 the other day I was with my live-in gf of 6 months and she received a letter in the mail from her 10 year old daughters father. she hasn't heard from him in 8 years. I didn't completely read the letter because it was in spanish. but I did know that it said he wanted to be in his daughters life and it said "many hugs and kisses for you" obviously she dropped what she was doing and in no time had her phone in her hand ready to call him but then decided to wait. I was a little nervous about what was going on so I pulled her aside and asked her. she just told me that he wants to talk with his daughter and he did not mention getting back together with her. she seemed very defensive about me asking. I had suspitions about her waiting until I was at work for her to call him and that is exactly what happened. but she did call me at work to tell me she was going to call him. I listened to her voicemails from work just to see if I could find anything and sure enough there was a Voicemail that she saved from him talking in a very sweet voice. I don't know what he said because it was spanish. also the next day he called while I was home and she answered and walked into another room to talk to him. when I followed her, she rushed him off the phone and gave the phone to het daughter and later asked why I was following her on the phone. my consern is that my gf has old feelings stirred up about this man. and that he is calling her cell phone three times a day for his daughter. but im not sure the nature of the his conversations with my gf. and what is going to happen when he comes to visit. I am not trying to get between a man and his daughter. but would I be wrong to expect that my gf is not included going off alone with this man on these visits? and that this man should not be coming into her house? especially while I am at work? I have a funny feeling about this whole situation. before he wrote this letter my gf always said about him that after they broke up that they would call each other for advice but could not be together because of his drug problem. but he is being released from jail next month, so he's clean. should I be worried? or am I making to much of this? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 Yes, I would be very worried. This kind of behaviour is extremely inappropriate. "Those with nothing to hide, hide nothing". Link to post Share on other sites
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