Zarnath Posted April 23, 2004 Share Posted April 23, 2004 Hello everyone, I really need some advice for my situation here. You see ive been spending 10 months with the girl of my life and were the greatest moments of my life, she always used to say that this love for me would never change and that she wouldn't know what she'd do without me, but one week ago out of nowhere she had something bad to tell me, she told me that she kind of changed and didn't like the way she was treating me now and she wanted to end this. Anyways, ive been crying for 5 days already trying to figure it out but what keeps bugging me is that the same day we broke up i went to visit her, bought her flowers and talked a little about it, But after i left crying she kissed me 2 times... Aren't people not supose to kiss after a break-up? The other day we talked and she said that she just needs some time to think it over and just wants to be alone for awhile and that she wanted to be my friend. I have spoken to everyone one we are close to (we have the same friends and they dont want us to be separated) and they all said that she still loves me and she said to me that she still feels something for me but was confused if she loved me as a friend or as a bf and that the feeling is so strong. 2 Days later I went to visit her at her school talking about a letter that she wrote me saying that "The love for me would never change" and she said thats how she feeled back then but to still give her time to be alone. Another thing that bugs me is that she isn't really treating me like a friend, she is very nice to me but sometimes it feels like shes ditching me but then again thats how I feel, I might be taking it the otherway around. Ok, the part I really need help with is that that day in school she invited me to the movies when VanHelsing comes out, she asked me if i prefer to see it with my friends or her and i said "no" I really want to go with you. Sorry for making this so long but I am suffering right now and need help... Anyone got any opinions on what you think about the situation, what should I do, how should I treat her, do I have a second chance? Her best friend told me to keeep calling her a few times and try to make her fall inlove again by being myself and think of it as starting all over again like the day we met. Link to post Share on other sites
Wolvesbaned Posted April 24, 2004 Share Posted April 24, 2004 Hi Zarnath, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I know it must so hard. I really don't know what to say except to keep yourself busy. It'll drive you nuts if all you do is think about her and wait for her call. Try to go out with your friends, go to the gym, run, do something that'll keep you busy. She says she wants space, so try to give it to her. If she's confusing you by inviting you places or showing you affection maybe you can have a short talk with her and tell her the truth... that you don't know how you should act towards her. Ask her what she wants. Please take care of yourself and try to enjoy the day! Link to post Share on other sites
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