confusedcarly Posted July 15, 2011 Posted July 15, 2011 can a woman be big and beautiful to a man or can he only see big x ive just come out a four year relationship i was told i was beautiful everyday. my ex loved my figure. but did she say that because thats what you say to your partner?? i dot understand how bigger women are suppose to date when the world is full of small minded people?? just because your bigger dont mean your not healthy and just because your slim dont mean your healthy. i work around men all day. they all have a laugh and a banter but do men see bigger woman as a great laugh?? as a good friend?? as that shoulder to cry on?? or could they be interested????? my mind is filled with doubt everyday. my sister is 3 dress sizes bigger than i am and is in a happy relationship, does confidence really shine threw or does a big girls lover find her through a friendship???
HerbDaline Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 can a woman be big and beautiful to a man yes or can he only see big surex ive just come out a four year relationship i was told i was beautiful everyday. my ex loved my figure. but did she say that because thats what you say to your partner?? possible i dot understand how bigger women are suppose to date when the world is full of small minded people?? just because your bigger dont mean your not healthy and just because your slim dont mean your healthy true. i work around men all day. they all have a laugh and a banter but do men see bigger woman as a great laugh?? as a good friend??yes as that shoulder to cry on??yes or could they be interested????? yes my mind is filled with doubt everyday. my sister is 3 dress sizes bigger than i am and is in a happy relationship, does confidence really shine threw yes or does a big girls lover find her through a friendship??? sometimes Because I was having issues with my tablet, I put some of my responses above in bold. Be who you are. Don't rush things. Stop obsessing over your weight/dress size. I had a thing for a larger woman & thought she was beautiful. Was already to ask her out on a date. Then her husband walked in to take her to lunch. They looked so happy together. I was glad he showed up & by doing so saved me from making a fool of myself. Love & relationships happen when they happen. Don't force it. Herb Daline
DreamerGirl27 Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 What I generally tend to find is that people like other people that look like them. I think if someone is really attracted to thin people, they generally make it a habit to try and stay really thin themselves. This isn't always the case, but if your weight doesn't bother you, it shouldn't bother anyone you're dating. I have a tendency to like really small men and I prefer myself smaller as well. So I strive for this. Just be who you are and things will fall into place.
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