LeeP Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 I was "talking" to a guy for quite some time but he never called only text. He never asked me to be his gf but would always express his interest in wanting to possibly marry me one day. I wanted to meet his two sons but I gues he didn't view things as serious enough. He also establish that if we were to be together children would not be in our futures. I knew I was getting played; however, the sex was AMAZING! We are soul mates...sexually. Well, he got relocated for a job temporarily and he failed to call me as he promise. That is for an entire month. So I wised up and expressed my interest in wanting to date other people and broke things off. Durning the time while me and the above mentioned male were talking there was this guy (let's call him Hulio) who would send me flowers/gifts or just visit me at my job about once a week since about a month since the month I was hired. Hulio was a shy guy despite his 6 foot 6" height and athelic build and thus just left the gifts without ever telling me his name or giving me his number. At the time I paid him no mind because he look caucaisian and thus I wasn't interested and also because of the fact I was "talking" to the previously mention guy. It wasn't until I heard him speak spanish and noticed his sea green eyes that I asked him "Hey are you from spain?" Hulio laughed and replied "No, I'm mexican." Well, we had our first date (WHICH WAS MAGICAL) and things moved kinda quickly. I became pregnant when the condom broke (it was my condom so no tricks there) despite being on the depo-shot, using spermicide, and having it only been 2 days since my period. Surprisingly, I was overjoyed considering the shock. Before I found out I was pregnant and even afterwards Hulio has been nothing short than the perfect man. He keeps a job and has put food in my home after the tornados that left my region food-less due to an extended power outage. He has used his spare key to leave me vases of roses for me to see when I come to my home from work. He's cleaned my home for me since I have been sick with child and pulling overtime at my work. He's harilous and there hasn't been not one day that passes in which he forgets to say I love you. He expressed his interest to marry me as "he fell in love with me when he first saw me". I know a man's love such as this is one-in-a-million but the bedroom isn't exciting for me and he takes way too long and I become bored easily Despite all of this I feel as though I wasn't given any closure to my previous not-so-relationship. I find myself wondering why wasn't I good enough for a phone call or a trip to the movies. I want to ride him one more time before I officially tie the knot. He doesn't know I'm pregnant and I am not showing even in the least bit. My hormones are out of this world! I cum in my sleep almost every night. It's not helping that Hulio hasn't moved in with me. I have barely seen hi also because he works mornings and I work nights. I find myself thinking... "If I could only just get some great head from the ex..." What's a woman to do? Link to post Share on other sites
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 Before I found out I was pregnant and even afterwards Hulio has been nothing short than the perfect man. He keeps a job and has put food in my home after the tornados that left my region food-less due to an extended power outage. He has used his spare key to leave me vases of roses for me to see when I come to my home from work. He's cleaned my home for me since I have been sick with child and pulling overtime at my work. He's harilous and there hasn't been not one day that passes in which he forgets to say I love you. He expressed his interest to marry me as "he fell in love with me when he first saw me". I know a man's love such as this is one-in-a-million but the bedroom isn't exciting for me and he takes way too long and I become bored easily Takes way too long? Since when is that usually a problem? Is he failing to bring the passion? Despite all of this I feel as though I wasn't given any closure to my previous not-so-relationship. I find myself wondering why wasn't I good enough for a phone call or a trip to the movies. I want to ride him one more time before I officially tie the knot. He doesn't know I'm pregnant and I am not showing even in the least bit. My hormones are out of this world! I cum in my sleep almost every night. It's not helping that Hulio hasn't moved in with me. I have barely seen hi also because he works mornings and I work nights. I find myself thinking... "If I could only just get some great head from the ex..." What's a woman to do? Are you stupid? The Ex didn't want you because you made yourself cheap. How is a guy supposed to respect a woman that accepts the kind of treatment you did? He treated you like trash and you just ate it up. I wouldn't call you for a month either. I had a friend who is a solid guy, but his xGF dumped him saying he was a dud in the bedroom. He seriously went to work on it and I think at this point 9/10 women love him. You need to get over your ex and put some effort into teaching this Hulio what you like. Otherwise you are just a douche. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 And people wonder why some men decide to turn into players and just use women. It's not right but stuff like this is the reason. Link to post Share on other sites
sm1tten Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 I was "talking" to a guy for quite some time but he never called only text. He never asked me to be his gf but would always express his interest in wanting to possibly marry me one day. I wanted to meet his two sons but I gues he didn't view things as serious enough. He also establish that if we were to be together children would not be in our futures. I knew I was getting played; however, the sex was AMAZING! We are soul mates...sexually. Well, he got relocated for a job temporarily and he failed to call me as he promise. That is for an entire month. So I wised up and expressed my interest in wanting to date other people and broke things off. Durning the time while me and the above mentioned male were talking there was this guy (let's call him Hulio) who would send me flowers/gifts or just visit me at my job about once a week since about a month since the month I was hired. Hulio was a shy guy despite his 6 foot 6" height and athelic build and thus just left the gifts without ever telling me his name or giving me his number. At the time I paid him no mind because he look caucaisian and thus I wasn't interested and also because of the fact I was "talking" to the previously mention guy. It wasn't until I heard him speak spanish and noticed his sea green eyes that I asked him "Hey are you from spain?" Hulio laughed and replied "No, I'm mexican." Well, we had our first date (WHICH WAS MAGICAL) and things moved kinda quickly. I became pregnant when the condom broke (it was my condom so no tricks there) despite being on the depo-shot, using spermicide, and having it only been 2 days since my period. Surprisingly, I was overjoyed considering the shock. Before I found out I was pregnant and even afterwards Hulio has been nothing short than the perfect man. He keeps a job and has put food in my home after the tornados that left my region food-less due to an extended power outage. He has used his spare key to leave me vases of roses for me to see when I come to my home from work. He's cleaned my home for me since I have been sick with child and pulling overtime at my work. He's harilous and there hasn't been not one day that passes in which he forgets to say I love you. He expressed his interest to marry me as "he fell in love with me when he first saw me". I know a man's love such as this is one-in-a-million but the bedroom isn't exciting for me and he takes way too long and I become bored easily Despite all of this I feel as though I wasn't given any closure to my previous not-so-relationship. I find myself wondering why wasn't I good enough for a phone call or a trip to the movies. I want to ride him one more time before I officially tie the knot. He doesn't know I'm pregnant and I am not showing even in the least bit. My hormones are out of this world! I cum in my sleep almost every night. It's not helping that Hulio hasn't moved in with me. I have barely seen hi also because he works mornings and I work nights. I find myself thinking... "If I could only just get some great head from the ex..." What's a woman to do? Keep your legs closed and start preparing for your child's arrival. Seriously. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing about what was more satisfying sex. However, let's be real. The man who was giving you amazing sex clearly only wanted the sex part... It wasn't a relationship. What you have with this Hulio guy sounds extremely rushed and you don't sound like you actually have deep feelings for him - more that you appreciate him and he keeps you from feeling abandoned by this other guy. I really hope that isn't true. At the very least you should be working on making your sex life (and overall relationship) with Hulio satisfying for BOTH of you instead of laying around thinking about some dude who, ironically, obviously became pretty bored with you and moved on. Link to post Share on other sites
Memphis Raines Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 I was "talking" to a guy for quite some time but he never called only text. He never asked me to be his gf but would always express his interest in wanting to possibly marry me one day. I wanted to meet his two sons but I gues he didn't view things as serious enough. He also establish that if we were to be together children would not be in our futures. I knew I was getting played no, you weren't. he let you know straight up what the score was. getting played would be making you think there was a future with kids, and then later say he didn't want them. he expressed that he'd like to marry you, but was honest about the kids thing, which is understandable since he already has 2. Well, he got relocated for a job temporarily and he failed to call me as he promise. That is for an entire month. So I wised up and expressed my interest in wanting to date other people and broke things off. which was the honorable thing to do. But what was wrong with you calling him? Despite all of this I feel as though I wasn't given any closure to my previous not-so-relationship. oh god, here we go. I find myself wondering why wasn't I good enough for a phone call or a trip to the movies. once again a woman wanting a guy that isn't as into her or doesn't want her, over a guy that would stand by her, support her and her child. I want to ride him one more time before I officially tie the knot. "want to ride him one more time". geez, you know what you sound like? my advice is don't tie the knot. don't tie down this poor unsuspecting sap "Julio", so he isn't ball and chained to someone that will never be true to him. He doesn't know I'm pregnant and I am not showing even in the least bit. My hormones are out of this world! I cum in my sleep almost every night. It's not helping that Hulio hasn't moved in with me. I have barely seen hi also because he works mornings and I work nights. I find myself thinking... "If I could only just get some great head from the ex..." What's a woman to do? Whats a woman to do? the right thing. do NOT trap "Julio" into marriage. If you need for him to support his child financially, fine, but don't trap the poor guy into marriage with someone like you. get him to pay child support with whatever percentage for one child is in your state, and then leave him alone. Ride the other guy all you want then. Link to post Share on other sites
Memphis Raines Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 U cum every night!? why dont u just masturbate?, b!tch! ouch! Link to post Share on other sites
Memphis Raines Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 I smell troll. Link to post Share on other sites
Sebstian Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Yeah either you're a troll or just insanely immature. If real what you should do was to get an abortion and leave poor Julio be! Link to post Share on other sites
Waffles Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Hulio huh? What are Fabio, Santiago, and Miguel going to think? What's a woman to do? I don't know. But if you cross Isabella, you'll break the truce between the five gangs. Then they'll start singing to each other. Be careful. Link to post Share on other sites
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