Don´t Have Much Time, Please Help Me!!

[kandy]

There´s a guy I´ve know for a long time cause we study the same degree, but we don´t to each other cause we have different friends. Sometimes he´s staring at me, but with all my insecurities I react not very friendly, (that´s why he has never approached me?, cause he maybe thinks I´m not interested in him).

 

I used to be skinny but now I´m overweight, but the way he looks at me has never changed, I feel he sees more in me than my looks, but with all the weight I gained I became more insecure, so I decided to stay away of any kind of relationship with men, (I used to have a boyfriend who only wanted me by the way I looked, but I allowed that from him only a month, I don´t need a man like that!).

 

The problem is that we will graduate in a couple of months, I know that it´s too late to try to approach him, and I´m too afraid to do it, cause every time I approach a guy I like he rejects me, but I want to give him something so that he will remember me even if we don´t see each other never again.

 

I was thinking in a drawing, cause I love to draw...What should I do? Should I do that? Any advice would be very nice of you, please help me!!!

kANDY

[average guy]

Approach him!!! I'e always told people the only things I ever regret are things I DIDN'T do!!!

 

Of all the words

of mouth and pen,

the saddest are

it might have been!

 

Go get him!!!

 

Good luck

[Lilyann]

Kandy,

 

I do have to agree with average guy. I am intriqued by this guy that I work with and I asked him to do something. Now it did take a few months of getting to know each other before we did go on a date, but it happened - Ask him to do something small as in getting a cup of coffeee to talk and work on homework together. You can see how it goes and go from there. I know when I was in college we did that kind of thing all the time. If there is no coffee shop by all means, go to Denny's. Afterall, that is where we went.

 

Go luck!

 

Lilyann