Dealing with a sexting spouse

[sweetp76]

I just recently caught my husband of 14 years sexting with a nother woman AGAIN! This has happened before with an ex girlfriend. Now I've caught him doing it again with a girl 17 yrs younger who is a mom of one of the boys my kids play football with. I feel disrespected, betrayed, and don't know what to do. Back in March I caught him posting on craiglist looking for some one to have naughty text with. I was 8 months pregnant and I assured him I would leave him if this happened again. Well here I am still here. He's cried and apologized and supposedly told me the truth about these exchanges but I don't know if its the complete truth! I don't think I will ever know the truth and I really don't think I can trust him to not do it again. I'm LOST!

[Scorpio6913]

I just recently caught my husband of 14 years sexting with a nother woman AGAIN! This has happened before with an ex girlfriend. Now I've caught him doing it again with a girl 17 yrs younger who is a mom of one of the boys my kids play football with. I feel disrespected, betrayed, and don't know what to do. Back in March I caught him posting on craiglist looking for some one to have naughty text with. I was 8 months pregnant and I assured him I would leave him if this happened again. Well here I am still here. He's cried and apologized and supposedly told me the truth about these exchanges but I don't know if its the complete truth! I don't think I will ever know the truth and I really don't think I can trust him to not do it again. I'm LOST!

 

Hey,

I'm really sorry to hear what you are going through, especially with a new born.. I'm a guy & think what he is doing is discusting. I think, as I've been through something similar, that if you can't trust him, then there is no point staying with him. I'm sorry again you have to deal with this.. I hope all works out for you one way or the other!