shawn923 Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 How do you deal with it? Experience will be helpful... Im 22, entering my 5th and final year of college before i graduate. my ex also goes here, where i met her. Im dreading going back to school in the fall and having to see her on a almost daily basis on campus... Shes the type that dresses to impress just to make me jealous, and flirts like crazy with other guys whenever im in the same room... I try to ignore it but its so annoying. Also theres this big lunch room area where most of hers as well as my friends hang out, and i end up seeing her there just to get to my friends. Im currently NC and she hurt me pretty bad. How am i gonna deal with this??? Link to post Share on other sites
Average55 Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 Hah. I'm dealing with the same situation....Except I'm still attending school. Look if she hurt you really bad, and in my situation she did, I suggest sitting down and looking back and thinking of really what happened. In my situation, she came out to be guilty, as expected from everyone including her. So it was nothing, when in fact when I saw her I would kinda be the first to look away. I might be rambling but listen don't let her ruin your education and future/career. I'm positive she's not worth it, not your career anyway. As for when seeing her, girls like her (Judging from you wrote in your post) FEED of guys staring at her. So stop doing that or you'll just do what you did when you got with her Make a mistake. Hope I helped. Link to post Share on other sites
Author shawn923 Posted July 18, 2011 Author Share Posted July 18, 2011 I don't stare. Sometimes it's just impossible not to see her because it's usually random, I head to that same area to see my friends and shes always there. Unless I avoid that area and give up my friends, then I'll feel like I'm running from her. Last semester she knew my schedule, and knew exactly when I was coming to that area so she would have a guy to flirt with by the time I got there. And I would notice it and be like WTF man just stop, I don't even care anymore... It just seems I always have this nat at the other side of the room trying to one-up me, when I'm not even competing at all! It's hard to keep NC when I'm forced to see her... Really sucks. I already know she hasn't matured worth siht so Im expecting more of the same this fall. It sucks. Link to post Share on other sites
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