FinOuch Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 ...so it's been a little over seven weeks since he dumped me. So that would make five since I found out about the other girl. I went to a concert with a friend of mine tonight, and I was doing fantastic and happy to be single again and all that jazz. Haven't cried in a few weeks. All that happy horsesh*t. ...Then I got home, and the loneliness hit hard core. Please, someone tell me this is normal... Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 It is normal... I get it too alot but I have been forcing myself to have some alone time to get back to before my ex and I were dating. You should schedule some alone time to yourself at your place one or 2 nights a week If you think about it, I was single for a 8 months before her and I officially started dating. Yes we hung out as friends for 2 years previous but she did not come home with me nor I come home with her Link to post Share on other sites
sleepykitten Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 Hi Finouch, yep its normal, i have been nc for 2 weeks and broken up for 8, some days are fine other days are horrible, i went through last week feeling incredibly lonely and sad, then this weekend I had a great time and feel ok again. Its a rollercoaster, hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
shayla Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 ...so it's been a little over seven weeks since he dumped me. So that would make five since I found out about the other girl. ...Then I got home, and the loneliness hit hard core. Please, someone tell me this is normal... It is normal, but it won't last. It will take time, and sometimes it sucks, but just know that you will soon feel good again. Link to post Share on other sites
melenkurion Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 It's very normal... I felt just the same. I still feel it now, to an extent. Link to post Share on other sites
shortee143 Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 So very normal. I am 4 months out, and doing a whole lot better, but I STILL have my moments (granted I blame much of this lengthier process being that I am in contact with my ex due to mutual friends, so I see him nad hear and know things I'd rather not, so that leads to other setbacks). That is the crappy part- you can be doing well- then bam! It feels like it just happened. It gets better. Sucks your ex moved on quickly, my ex did too. I hate thinking of him with her Link to post Share on other sites
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