LK30 Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 Time to come clean?? Hey all, I sent a Valentine's card to a girl in my office in February (obviously!). We worked on same floor but different departments, however apart from some friendly smiles I never spoke to her. A few months ago my team moved to a different floor, and I was gutted as I rarely see her now. Yesterday I was walking down the office corridor and I saw her in the kitchen area. I didn't go in there, but I had a quick glimpse as I walked past. She looked lovely. I never told her about the card, so she must be wondering as it would frustrate me for sure if it was vice versa. I know very little about her, and for all I know she might have a boyfriend. I sat at my desk today imagining what could have happened if I'd gone in the kitchen and said 'hey, I've got a confession, it was me! Look, I know I sound like a stalker so if you want to take this outside I won't try to block your slap!' I guess really I need to let it go, and I haven't thought about it much since Valentine's Day, but seeing her yesterday brought it all back and I would've been secretly hoping she said 'hey, it was you! I loved it, and you are definitely the one for me, let's get together!' Ha ha!! Chances of seeing her again are slim even though we're in the same building, and although I could e-mail her, again this is risky and not a good approach technique - especially as she works for the legal team!! L :-) Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 To me since it was almost 6 months ago then you would look a bit like a creeper if you went over and blurted out about the V-day card.. She probably got a good feeling from the card (if she was single) so why ruin that. If I were you I would make the most out of the next time you might see her and walk up and introduce yourself. You would get a read on it then and while talking to her maybe you could see if she is taken. As far as the card.. let it go unless you guys start up a friendship then you could bring it up in conversation... Link to post Share on other sites
MissJonelyn Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 Tell her in person. I don't really see why you would send her an e-mail unless she is long distance or unless you plan on working in a different building. You both work in the same building. Maybe not the same floor anymore but it's still the same building. Did I mention you both work in the same building? That's better than most people's options. You have the chance to talk with her and develop a relationship. Most people see someone they're into on the street or on a train or whatever and it's always totally random. You're chances are much better than theirs. Link to post Share on other sites
aisle_seat Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 A agree with the above posters...let the V Day card issue go and start fresh - in person; no email. I have a question though - why didn't you sign the V Day card? Link to post Share on other sites
Maggotface Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 Agreed, bringing up the card would just be creepy and an e-mail would just seem awkward. Link to post Share on other sites
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