skaly Posted July 20, 2011 Share Posted July 20, 2011 We have knowing each other for 8 years and married for 6years with a girl. I wanted want him to move out lately . This isn't the first time he cheated on less a year of our marriage. I had forgave him for that . I can't forgive him anymore. He start staying at "friend" home not even coming home only when he feel like it. The girls are asking me where daddy. so i don`t know what to do,should i give him another chance just for my little kid,but i am worry he will cheat on me again,my friend advise a keylogger to me ,but i don`t konw if it is useful or not,but i think i will have a try. Link to post Share on other sites
LilyBart Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Sweetie, you don't need a keylogger. You already KNOW he's cheating on you - especially since this isn't the first time. The ball's in your court. You can either put up with it or get rid of the problem (him). He'll keep cheating on you because you keep allowing it. Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 We have knowing each other for 8 years and married for 6years with a girl. I wanted want him to move out lately . This isn't the first time he cheated on less a year of our marriage. I had forgave him for that . I can't forgive him anymore. He start staying at "friend" home not even coming home only when he feel like it. The girls are asking me where daddy. so i don`t know what to do,should i give him another chance just for my little kid,but i am worry he will cheat on me again,my friend advise a keylogger to me ,but i don`t konw if it is useful or not,but i think i will have a try. Have some self respect, woman. The guy is treating you like dirt. He doesn't deserve a wife. Without trust in a marriage, there is no marriage. If he wants to live a single lifestyle, then let him be single. You deserve someone you can trust. Time to tell him to pack his bags, and time for you to call an attorney. Link to post Share on other sites
phillyfan Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Yea dude i agree, u need 2 leave him. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Guys, I'm not usually one to cry "fake post", but the carefully embedded link to the keylogger website (not even just listed as "http://..." in the post, but carefully made into a clickable link) makes it pretty clear that this post was just link spam to try to drive traffic to that site. OP, if I am wrong, please post more of the details of your situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Waffles Posted July 21, 2011 Share Posted July 21, 2011 Guys, I'm not usually one to cry "fake post", but the carefully embedded link to the keylogger website (not even just listed as "http://..." in the post, but carefully made into a clickable link) makes it pretty clear that this post was just link spam to try to drive traffic to that site. OP, if I am wrong, please post more of the details of your situation. I'm sure that the link was just an amazing coincidence. /end thread Link to post Share on other sites
Author skaly Posted July 22, 2011 Author Share Posted July 22, 2011 firstly,thank u you guys.I have thought about to leave his forever,but when my little kid aksed me where is daddy.My heart just like broken,so i install keylogger to check him for the last time,if i found he cheat on me again.NO WAY. Link to post Share on other sites
bigmomma1974 Posted July 22, 2011 Share Posted July 22, 2011 i am not familiar with a keylogger but it sounds like it is a little spying gadget. if you have to do this then you need to probably tell him to hit the road. It will be hard on your kids but you just have to reassure them that you and their dad love them b ut you 2 can't live together, Make sure they know it isn't their fault and contine to be the mom you are, His cheating will only lead to disaster in the end, If he did it oncce and hes doing it again he needs to hit the road. He acts like he is single when he stays out all night and plays and just comes home to you when its convientg for him , see a therapist and move on without him/. You deserve better and your kids dont need to grow up like this, Trust me it is hard on them,. Link to post Share on other sites
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