could anyone plz help me..

[me4u]

hi everyone!! tahnks in advance for ur valuable advice.my story goes like this....

 

I have been best of friends with A and B who were seeing each other from past 3 yrs but they broke up last sept because A thought he fell out of love with B.I had a gf too till last oct.My ex- dumped walked out one me 'cause she thought she cldn't get over her past.I live ina completely diff country as i am here for my studies while A and B are in my home country.After B broke up i used to call her everyday as she was feeling down and low..i kinda got close to her and started liking her...In february i expressed my feelings for her and she was kinda shocked.she told me that she has always thought of me as a frnd and if it has to go somethin more than tht she would need time.so i told her to take time.

 

She is still in touch with A and she also told me tht she is in the process of gettin over him and she likes me and tells me i am a nice guy and all tht stuff.she has told her parents abt me(me liking her)....but after i told her tht i like her she kinda changed..she was distancing herslef from me for some days.then i told her to relax and told her that no matter what her decision is we would still remian frnds.i am kinda frustrated now..i talk to her everyday.and she sounds tht she is happy whn she is talkin to me..she also told me that she needs time even though its already 3 mnths.i haven't asked her how much time she needs as i thought it would be mean to ask her.i donno what to do as i feel i have fallen in love with her...i even told her tht i have fallen in love with her yesterday for which she told --ok..thats it..

once i told her tht i should nt have told her my feelings as she is distancing herself frm me..she told me""no ur fine..its good actually u told me"and whn i asked her why is tht she is nt talkin to me properly she sd, "everytime i call her up she feels bad as she is keepin me hangin in the air and she is nt able to take a decision"...guys,i am really confused as to what to do..i am sooo far awya from her..i can't even meet her to express my feelings for her...I am thinking of goin home this summer so that i can meet her...

 

To add to this B told A tht i like her..A was surprised and after few days he called B and told her that he wants her back(eventhough he dumped her)..bt B sd she can;t get back..i really need advice people as to what to do next..do u think she likes me..and do u guys think tht i have to speak to A and ask him if he still loves B and if he ds then i shld juss back off...people plz gimme some advice here...i would really appreciate it..thnx a lot.

[come on I'm nick]

Well brother. I was in such a situation for some years ago.

 

First of all, don't trust A. I think he'll try to get back B just because you love her. We're people, that's the low of man's psychology, you know.

 

Second, don't disturb B with expressions like "I love you" and so on. Remember, she's known that already. Speak to her tender but don't be too soft, girls don't like soft men, they're not interested in them.

 

You have to become more interesting for her. Try to find out what she likes more in men and then try to follow that characteristics.