I don't know ...

[alex0920]

Ok, so here it goes… I’ve been trying to get this off my chest for quite a few weeks now, I haven’t found the right moment to do so. Im a 23 year old man who just got off this 5 year old relationship 6 months ago. I still talk to my ex sometimes and she still after me even though she was the one who broke up with me in the first place. But my problem comes with this girl that I started dating almost 4 months ago. we had know each other from high school but we weren’t close. We saw each other at a friends party and the ball started rolling rite away. She would cook for me and clean my place up. She even slept over a few times over the weekend. But the issue starts that im starting to feel something extra for her and she noticed it and has backed up a bit from me, don’t get me wrong we still go out and have fun but when ever a conversation comes about us she avoids it. Quick inside: she broke up with her boyfriend 5 months ago as well, and I think she might be starting to get confused about us or who she wants to be with or maybe she just wants to be alone. One day she came over the house and the kisses didn’t feel the same and wouldn’t really want to be with me… but if so then why would she go to the trouble of been with someone that she really doesn’t want to be with. I’m starting to not care more and more and I’m afraid by the time she figures it out im over it… but then again I don’t want to be with someone that’s not sure of what she wants. In the beginning we would go out and it would be just the two of us and we would have a blast now it seems that everytime we do something it has to be with people around us… like if she is avoiding alone time with me. Also she starting to use the phone more and more when shes with me, always texting, I don’t have a problem with that because I do the same but she its constantly on the phone… I feel that shes not there anymore as far as an intimate friendship. I talked to her once about us and about our future and she imploured that she first needs to know the person well before we can take it to the next level, even her friends call me her boyfriend but she doesn’t… idk I think she might be searching for an answer but I don’t want to be next to her while she finds the answer… I just don’t know anymore…[/sIZE][/FONT]