Some things you just wish you hadn't seen...

[DiorAddict]

When I used my friend's bathroom I saw a pregnancy test...I didn't say anything to her about it, but I'm really concerned and don't know how to confront the issue, or whether I should confront it at all. Any advice??

[Tony T]

What your friend has in her bathroom is none of your business....unless, of couse, you may be the one who got her pregnant. If that's the case, don't confront her. Just hope she isn't pregnant with YOUR baby, if you didn't want that.

[DiorAddict]

Tony, I'm a girl and I'm talking about my best friend =) But thanks! At least you responded!

[sportsloving]

I wouldn't say anything to her... if she needs to talk, she will let you know.

[magda]

Well, congratulations. Many best friends would feel entitled to such information and not shut up about seeing such a thing. (Pet peeve of mine, far as girl friends. I think a good friend respects the bounds of privacy. That's what I try to do.)

 

Anyway, did it have her name on it? Maybe it belongs to another friend, co-worker, or family member who is going to come by and use it. If you're "really concerned" then you must be concerned about other things in her life - such as lots of unprotected sex? If so, you can figure out how to confront her on that issue.

 

But if you can't get it off your mind, just say you saw it. It wasn't hidden, right? That is - as an alternative to doing that "hinting about it but never actually saying anything" and/or "asking every mutual friend of yours for advice on whether or not to say anything" stuff girls do.

[DiorAddict]

Thanks for the feedback LoveShack!