I don't get him

[Lonelystar]

I called my ex yesterday so he could pick up his dream cast which he left at my house. He told me that he still wanted to be friends and what not, and I told him he wasn't much of a friend so we should just stop. However, I also told him that I didn't want to end on a sour notes, and that I have no grudges against him. I just didn't want to pretend anymore. He said I was overeacting...and that he still cared..yadda yadda yadda.

 

I thought everything was fine, but then his friend calls me and says He never wants to speak to me again, and to never call him. I was so mad, that all the love i thought I felt went out the door. What gives? I seriously don't understand him, and now I never want to speak to him again.

 

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[UCFKevin]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what you want? To stop everything? Not be friends? What's it matter? Now that HE doesn't want to talk, you're upset?

[jonathan]

How can you not end it on a bad note yous two broke up. it never works so my advise is dont talk or be friends

[Lonelystar]

I did want to be friends, but he wasn't being much of a friend. I didn't want to end in a sour note. When he said he wanted to be friends, I said okay we can try. Plus I think its rude that he had his friends call.

[Lonelystar]

I also forgot to mention that when I talked to him on the phone I apolozied for "over-reacting", and I thought we were okay. Not close friends, but still normal with eachother. HE should of been man enough to call me, and not pretended that he cared.

[Lonelystar]

We could not end in a bad note because I don't want him as bf, I just needed him as a friend. He told all his friend personal info that I had told him not to tell anyone. It just makes me mad that he would tell his friend to call me, and he didn't call me himself. Whatever I felt I told him, not had my friends call him. Plus he told his friends some personal info I had told him not to tell.