wilsonx Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 So I saw my ex's pictures on facebook. It did not bother me at all. I did not get sick to my stomach. I wasn't mad, I wasn't angry. I kind of laughed. I just don't understand... Can someone explain this to me how this works out? Thats not her dad lol thats the guy she left me for http://img687.imageshack.us/img687/7471/26264878907645263733611.jpg <shrug> Link to post Share on other sites
Exit Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 So what exactly is your question? lol. Are you surprised that you did not have a more extreme reaction to it or something? It's a good sign, means she is off that pedestal in your mind, the mere sight of her can't cause you pain anymore. You're seeing a more realistic version of her, probably asking yourself what you ever saw in this person and how you ever missed them. Sounds like you're doing good. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wilsonx Posted July 23, 2011 Author Share Posted July 23, 2011 (edited) oh well guess thats what i wanted to know... I took down the picture and deleted it, It was so stupid, it made me backslide just a tad. It did not make me angry, it made me anxious. The guy is hideous it does sting a little that I was left for him. I guess if she wants to date her father, more power to her. Edited July 23, 2011 by wilsonx Link to post Share on other sites
SIGNALFREQ Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 Hey bro, Im in the same boat. Prayer and counseling really helped me get through these trying times. If you are really hurt by all of it, then talking about is a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Trappedinyou Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 I'm in the same position Wilson only I'm 8 years older than this guy but am looking much the better. Our friends have slowly one by one started to give me support after being silent. I wish they'd stayed silent. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wilsonx Posted July 23, 2011 Author Share Posted July 23, 2011 Ok for all you idiots out there like myself that wanted to see a picture of your ex with the ugly old man shes dating now... DO NOT DO IT. I backslid into day 0 for about 12 hours today and it was miserable. I thought I was fine, then it just got stupid. Tell your friends to F off if they start talking about how hideous your ex is now Link to post Share on other sites
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