I need to know!

[babygirl1986]

About two years ago my baby daddy came out to me and told me he was bisexual. We been on and off for four years and it's been rough when we are dating and ain't dating we still have sex. Now he has been with men before and he chats with men on line all the time. It's been really hard to accept that if we started our relationship again he would still be with me but also bisexual and interested in men. What makes it even more harder is that we have three children together. I am completely in love with him and want so much more but have the fear of being together and him cheating on me with men. I still see it as wrong in my eyes that he wants to be with me but he still wants that whole other lifestyle also. I have been so confused and not sure to accept that fact, I already accepted him of who he is and I still love him indefinitely but Idk if I can accept being with him and knowing he would sleep with another man if he had that opportunity. It's so hard to throw away four years plus a family together but I want him to myself plus with the fear of catching something from him. Please help me I don't know what to do.

[TigerCub]

I don't think its a question of whether he's bisexual or not.

Its a question of cheating.

 

You say that you want him to yourself, but you're afraid that he will cheat on you with men if he has the chance - would it be better if he slept with women?

 

Did he tell you that he will want to sleep with men if you 2 are in a committed relationship or are you just assuming that he will because he told you he is bi?

 

You say that he is "baby daddy", you have 3 kids together, are off and on and still sleep together, maybe the problem here is that you want more of a commitment from this guy - maybe you want him to be more than "baby daddy" and that's something he's not even offering you - and it has nothing to do with being bisexual or not.