Tmoney Posted April 26, 2004 Share Posted April 26, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=indigo][/color] Hey I just found out that my G/F cheated on me. i luv her to death and wouldnt trade her for the world. The thing is she cheated with a guy (yes im a girl). So the first thing i assumed was that she was questioning her sexuality, but she assures me that she doesnt know why she did it and only wants to be with me. So my question is how can i be sure she loves me and isnt thinking about other people or continuing to cheat. It is obviuos she feels horrible about what she has done, but in the pit of my stomach i have doubt. We have been together for 5 years and i cant stand the idea of losing her, what can i do to forgive her and stop thinking about what she has done?? please i need help Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted April 26, 2004 Share Posted April 26, 2004 Hello, I am sorry for your pain. Unfortunately your girl friend is still not being honest with you. Her comment that she does not why she had sex with another person is simply not true. People make choices all the time. She made a choice to have sex with this other guy for some reason but she refuses to acknowledge to you the reason why. Otherwise why does she not have sex with anybody who asks her? She made a deliberate choice to cheat on you with this specific person for a specific reason or reasons. Until she is honest with you what the motivation was then there is simply no reason to trust her. A relationship has to be based on a foundation of truth and honesty. She is still refusing to be truthful and honest with you. She can cry all she wants but until she is honest with herself and with you it is doubtful that she can be trusted now and in the future. If she refuses to acknowledge the problem and the reasons involved in her cheating then how are the both of you supposed to fix it? Again she knows why but she refuses to tell you. I wish you luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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