She's never coming back.

[Nohbody]

I'm done. Finished. I give up. I give up on her, and I give up on what I thought was a the relationship we had. Obviously it wasn't. There's nothing left to worry about, she's gone and she's going to live whatever life she wants to live, and she'll do so without me. I'm done picking up the pieces and puzzling it out. Gone, baby, gone. I've lost all hope, I am hopeless that this will ever get fixed. There's nothing I can do... and I doubt there's anything she'd be willing to do to even try to begin to fix the rift... so I'm chucking it into the abyss.

 

Thanks LS, you've all been wonderful. After this, hell will hold no surprises.

[xeros]

It's the final and essential stage of realization. As crushing as it might feel to give up any hope for reconciliation, it'll help you massively in moving past this. Stay strong buddy!

[marqueemoon4]

this is good.. you're in a good place now. no more false hope, no more stress. let her go once and for all.. its all about YOU. (insert cliche)

[ScienceGal]

I am on here today because I had a BAD morning! I am glad that you find some comfort in this forum. I certainly do, and am feeling better than a couple hours ago.

 

There is a lot more time in this life, so hopefully before hell, you'll get more of the good stuff up here

[Bito]

Dont ever forget that. The next step is convincing yourself this is a good thing. This will take time but in the end you will be so much stronger and a better person!

[giuliano-3]

Many things are hell. Life. War. Love.

 

Some of those things can be wonderful also. Here's to hoping you find the silver lining in the hell you've been through. If you don't come around here any more, I'll miss you buddy. Be good, stay true to yourself and never forget where you came from and who you are deep down. All the best, truly.

[Graceful]

As long as you are true to your word and all you're doing is giving up on her, I'm cool with your decision.

 

Because this means I can breathe a sigh of relief that you're not giving up on yourself. That's right. You're not going to give up on yourself, because that's not what you said in your post. Good, because that's the key to going forward. Have faith in yourself.

 

You gave yourself a gift by letting go of your ex -- like a balloon, drifting off into the sky, alone, to land ... who knows? You're on your own path now, and you know what? This OPENS THE DOOR for you.

 

As for hope? You haven't lost it at all, you're just going to put your hope in your future and yourself. Re-focus, it's still there.

 

May I also tell you that you have had some life experiences in the service some of us will never have or understand. I appreciate that, quite honestly. I have hope for you, and hope that in due time, you will meet someone who appreciates what you have done, and has a heart of gold to love you for who you are, which is what you so deserve. Take care of yourself, and keep the faith.

 

I'm done. Finished. I give up. I give up on her, and I give up on what I thought was a the relationship we had. Obviously it wasn't. There's nothing left to worry about, she's gone and she's going to live whatever life she wants to live, and she'll do so without me. I'm done picking up the pieces and puzzling it out. Gone, baby, gone. I've lost all hope, I am hopeless that this will ever get fixed. There's nothing I can do... and I doubt there's anything she'd be willing to do to even try to begin to fix the rift... so I'm chucking it into the abyss.

 

Thanks LS, you've all been wonderful. After this, hell will hold no surprises.