zlatnapolja Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Short version of the story: My BF has an ex GF, in the first months of our relationship he went to the movie with her twice. One time I called him and I heard her on the other side of the phone and him saying 'what are you doing, go away' to her. Turns out she was bringing him food because he was sick... Another time I was there, and she came over to his house, because she wanted to study there. She used to call him a lot 3, 4, 5, 6 times a day and she would tell him she wanted sex with him. At a certain point, my BF promissed me he he wouldn't contact her anymore, and would ignore her calls and delete her from his contact list etc. I didn't force him to do this! However he broke his promiss, over and over and over again, after he saw how much it meant to me. For the past few months things were okay... But 1,5-2 weeks ago, I found out he's been calling her again anddddd he still has pictures on his computer of her and another ex GF. He says he misses the friendship and doesn't want anything else. It upsets me so much it drives me crazy. I love this guy so much, and I take a lot of crap from him. But I don't want to be confronted with other girls time after time after time after time. And I don't want him to tell me I'm nagging him or stuff like that. I'm okay with him having female friends, I really am! And he has female friends, and I know them and we get along just fine. I just had a fight with him, and I feel like I've really had it with him. I just want him to keep his promiss to me, and to stop liying to me:( I'm a really happy person, but this is making me feel so insecure and sad... All he does is tell me I'm nagging him and that I need to trust him, but that he loves me. But guys how can I trust someone that breaks his promisses like this and than lies about it? Link to post Share on other sites
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