Author zlatnapolja Posted July 31, 2011 Author Share Posted July 31, 2011 im dating a guy with all your criteria right now! so guys like that DEFFF exist! also, i don't think they are too rare to find. good luck dont ever let him go! Wow thanks babe, you gave me some hope! Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Unfortunately, the perfect guy is a woman with a dick. Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlatnapolja Posted July 31, 2011 Author Share Posted July 31, 2011 Unfortunately, the perfect guy is a woman with a dick. Iew, no thanks! In that case I'd rather have a woman without one. However, unfortunately I only go for men:( Sometimes I feel like men hate women, is this true? Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Sometimes I feel like men hate women, is this true? No. But sometimes we wish it were possible to put a man's brain in a woman's head so women would understand us better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlatnapolja Posted July 31, 2011 Author Share Posted July 31, 2011 No. But sometimes we wish it were possible to put a man's brain in a woman's head so women would understand us better. I think a question a lot of women have and that is also a reason why women 'nag' is that: Some men do things from time to time that makes women wonder wheather the guy is still interested/ loves her. For instance, how can you ignore phonecalls, obsesivly look at other women etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Dorie Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 I think a question a lot of women have and that is also a reason why women 'nag' is that: Some men do things from time to time that makes women wonder wheather the guy is still interested/ loves her. For instance, how can you ignore phonecalls, obsesivly look at other women etc. Not all men do this, z. I'm sorry you're experiencing this in your current relationship. Are you giving serious thought to ending it? Life is too short. Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlatnapolja Posted July 31, 2011 Author Share Posted July 31, 2011 Not all men do this, z. I'm sorry you're experiencing this in your current relationship. Are you giving serious thought to ending it? Life is too short. I already did end it;) but not because of these 2 things. I'm not saying all guys do this, but in general I think more men than women do this. And for me.. I sometimes think, why would one do this.. I mean sometimes you busy and cant answer your phone, or sometimes you want to be by yourself. But in general you should be able to call back after a few hours. And I too can see it if a guy is attractive, but I would never bother my BF with this. Link to post Share on other sites
Centaurus Posted September 11, 2011 Share Posted September 11, 2011 Why is this such an impossible list, and why are all you gals so skeptical of the simultaneous existence of these things in one man? These things seem like prerequisites rather than unlikely ingredients. So, that being said, I'll step forth and claim I have all those traits. Link to post Share on other sites
Starry_Dreamer Posted September 13, 2011 Share Posted September 13, 2011 dunno, I'd like to find one of these too haha Link to post Share on other sites
othersideofthepillow Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 i score 10/10 and yet i was dumped a few months ago....oh well lol Link to post Share on other sites
LynnieBear Posted September 17, 2011 Share Posted September 17, 2011 Why is this such an impossible list, and why are all you gals so skeptical of the simultaneous existence of these things in one man? These things seem like prerequisites rather than unlikely ingredients. So, that being said, I'll step forth and claim I have all those traits. really? so you would be able to find one woman and only find her attractive? not have any sexual thoughts about any other women? if so, can I clone you and will you go out with me? Link to post Share on other sites
unknownsources Posted September 17, 2011 Share Posted September 17, 2011 (edited) A guy that cares more about his family and the love of his life, than about his frkn ego. A guy that sees it when other girls are pretty, but will never be sexualy interested in anyone else but me. A guy that isn't stressed out all the time. A guy that supports you when you need it. A guy that 'generally' answers or otherwise returns his phonecalls. A guy that is comfertable with himself, and isn;t insecure all the time wheather he is 'manly' enough A guy that loves me when I'm with him, but still has me in his heart and on his mind when I'm not with him A guy that thinks about my feelings before doing something A guy that doesnt lie A guy that's very sensual and loving. Where can I find this guy???? Where can I find girls with this mindset? Seems if you're looking for something you can't find it. I'm too stubborn to try other ways of looking... I guess I "scored" 9 of 10 but that's because I can't agree with the second one, but only from the phrasing. As the animals that we are (yes, we are) we have that instinct to be attracted to attractive people. The key is to be secure with each other and not act on that instinct. If you meant not go after anyone else, then yeah, totally agree. If you're happy, there's no need to go for anything else. If you're not happy, then break it off and go for something else. Edited September 17, 2011 by unknownsources Link to post Share on other sites
MyT Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 A guy that cares more about his family and the love of his life, than about his frkn ego. I gave up my ego with my last relationship - when the relationship fell apart - I never bothered to find it again - I'm only 19 right now so I can't say 'family' in the traditional sense A guy that sees it when other girls are pretty, but will never be sexualy interested in anyone else but me. I'm still sitting-on-the-fence with this one, while I acknowledge that men are in general more... horny, I can say that I don't explicitly equate love with sex A guy that isn't stressed out all the time. If life was perfect - then there would be no drive/push/motivation to do more, to be better in same way A guy that supports you when you need it. I'd be happy if I was half as supportive as the girl's close friends - it's just hard knowing what to say and when to say it - guys have such discussions once in a blue moon A guy that 'generally' answers or otherwise returns his phonecalls. I remember I was usually the one calling, but that was because of our situations - I'd personally love to know she called me though, and I'd try to call asap A guy that is comfertable with himself, and isn;t insecure all the time wheather he is 'manly' enough this goes back to the top part about being stressed - I'm ok buildwise but I'd like to get better - does that not count? A guy that loves me when I'm with him, but still has me in his heart and on his mind when I'm not with him I recently meet this girl and just got her name - I can't get her outta my head - every cute quote I see or similar things - I associate with her - my friend said 'too fast' A guy that thinks about my feelings before doing something I'm pretty calculating - perhaps cold - does that count.. A guy that doesnt lie White lies? I do believe the ends justify the means - will I cheat and lie? I won't cheat. A guy that's very sensual and loving. I've never dated myself - I wouldn't know Where can I find this guy???? I have trouble finding girls who doesn't try looking for the most trendy/popular guy around, one that hasn't slept with -just about everyone-, intelligent Oh the irony. Link to post Share on other sites
MyT Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 Oops, double post Link to post Share on other sites
LynnieBear Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 I'm still sitting-on-the-fence with this one, while I acknowledge that men are in general more... horny, I can say that I don't explicitly equate love with sex This is a better way to describe it then. Instead of a guy who looks at other girls, but doesn't want to have sex with them, how 'bout this. I want a guy who equates love with sex. They aren't mutually exclusive. Link to post Share on other sites
Rabid Ferret Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 The big problem with stuff like this is that looks and personality directly oppose each other on the great balance. If he's good looking he never developed a sense of concern for others because people have always went out of their way to please him. Sure, he can fake it, but when it comes to having to act right or get lost, he knows he can get another girl easily and not have to hassle himself with being nice. If he's unattractive he knows how rejection feels and has a sense of what he wants from others, and tries to give it to them in exchange. He'll sit and listen to you talk about your whole day and shower you with affection. But he's too accommodating. Women get bored if there's no challenge, so he always sits in the friend zone. On that rare case he's good looking AND nice, you can forget about it. Good looking nice guys are like girls who play video games. Insanely rare and always taken. Link to post Share on other sites
LynnieBear Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 I'm a girl who plays video games. Know quite a few of 'em, too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlatnapolja Posted January 9, 2012 Author Share Posted January 9, 2012 I gave up my ego with my last relationship - when the relationship fell apart - I never bothered to find it again - I'm only 19 right now so I can't say 'family' in the traditional sense I'm still sitting-on-the-fence with this one, while I acknowledge that men are in general more... horny, I can say that I don't explicitly equate love with sex If life was perfect - then there would be no drive/push/motivation to do more, to be better in same way I'd be happy if I was half as supportive as the girl's close friends - it's just hard knowing what to say and when to say it - guys have such discussions once in a blue moon I remember I was usually the one calling, but that was because of our situations - I'd personally love to know she called me though, and I'd try to call asap this goes back to the top part about being stressed - I'm ok buildwise but I'd like to get better - does that not count? I recently meet this girl and just got her name - I can't get her outta my head - every cute quote I see or similar things - I associate with her - my friend said 'too fast' I'm pretty calculating - perhaps cold - does that count.. White lies? I do believe the ends justify the means - will I cheat and lie? I won't cheat. I've never dated myself - I wouldn't know I have trouble finding girls who doesn't try looking for the most trendy/popular guy around, one that hasn't slept with -just about everyone-, intelligent Oh the irony. I havent been on this forum, for quite a while and a lot has changed in the meanwhile. Looking at your remarks on my somewhat 'black and white' list:p, I think that you seem like an amazing guy. I agree with your remarks, hope you'll find a great girl! Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted February 9, 2012 Share Posted February 9, 2012 (edited) Guys will still always be sexually attracted to other women when they're with someone, it's totaly natural and normal. You can't expect otherwise. What's important is that they don't act on it, or wish that they were with them instead of you. Edited February 9, 2012 by Ross MwcFan Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlatnapolja Posted February 11, 2012 Author Share Posted February 11, 2012 Guys will still always be sexually attracted to other women when they're with someone, it's totaly natural and normal. You can't expect otherwise. What's important is that they don't act on it, or wish that they were with them instead of you. Being attracted to someone else is natural, wanting to have sex with someone else while youre already in a relationship isnt. Its the biggest sign that something is either wrong with you and/or with your relationship Link to post Share on other sites
imraan47 Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 9/10 for me Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlatnapolja Posted March 7, 2012 Author Share Posted March 7, 2012 9/10 for me You will marry one lucky lady someday You cant force love, you cant argue with love and love doesnt listen to anybody or anything, who knows Ill fall in love with a workaholic who cheats on me while ordering me to stay at home haha. But its good to know that you will make some woman very happy! Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted March 7, 2012 Share Posted March 7, 2012 A guy that cares more about his family and the love of his life, than about his frkn ego. A guy that sees it when other girls are pretty, but will never be sexualy interested in anyone else but me. A guy that isn't stressed out all the time. A guy that supports you when you need it. A guy that 'generally' answers or otherwise returns his phonecalls. A guy that is comfertable with himself, and isn;t insecure all the time wheather he is 'manly' enough A guy that loves me when I'm with him, but still has me in his heart and on his mind when I'm not with him A guy that thinks about my feelings before doing something A guy that doesnt lie A guy that's very sensual and loving. Where can I find this guy???? In your dreams. Link to post Share on other sites
chsavage Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 All of these qualities seem like the things you might already have in a really close friend, and maybe that's what the problem is? Just reflecting on my own circumstance talking to friends of mine that are of the female persuasion, they often talk about finding a nice guy with X Y & Z traits and I have to fight every urge I have to smash my face on the table because I feel like I meet all of those standards but I'm restricted to the status of being a friend. Look closely at the people you spend a lot of time with and maybe this guy is where you weren't expecting him to be. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ZacThomas Posted March 15, 2012 Share Posted March 15, 2012 I am new to this forum community, I am very glad to join this community and I want to share my ideas and knowledge resources with the forum members as well as keen to increase my information bank also. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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