boobsyfairy Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Sensual and loving would do it for me. Good luck with your search though... Hope we find that man. Hugs and kisses... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlatnapolja Posted March 22, 2012 Author Share Posted March 22, 2012 All of these qualities seem like the things you might already have in a really close friend, and maybe that's what the problem is? Just reflecting on my own circumstance talking to friends of mine that are of the female persuasion, they often talk about finding a nice guy with X Y & Z traits and I have to fight every urge I have to smash my face on the table because I feel like I meet all of those standards but I'm restricted to the status of being a friend. Look closely at the people you spend a lot of time with and maybe this guy is where you weren't expecting him to be. You are absolutely right! I've actually started to look more within my circle of (male) friends. There is one guy, I think meets ALL of my 'demands' but there's one problem...... I dont feel the romantic connection, even though it would be perfect! Kinda hating myself for this! It has nothing to do with his personality and it has nothing to do with the way he looks. We have a great friendship and understand each other perfectly, however I'm missing that je ne sais quoi.. fml Link to post Share on other sites
Warrior Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 zlatnapolja where are you from? South-East Europe? :) Link to post Share on other sites
brokenTom Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 (edited) 9/10 for me as well... I can't imagine not being "sexually interested" in other women. That doesn't mean I would say or do anything about it. If I'm with someone I'm attracted to I wouldn't even think much about other women. I also would not expect any women to not find other guys sexually interesting, and if they do I wouldn't assume they are fantasizing about them and will dump me for them... If you tweak #2 a bit so it's more specific, I would meet 10/10 The other ones I feel are completely realistic. EDIT: Oh I see you clarified #2... so, I guess, if I find you attractive we might hit it off. And by "attraction" I mean more then looks of course. Edited March 22, 2012 by brokenTom Link to post Share on other sites
brokenTom Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 one problem...... I dont feel the romantic connection lol, then why not put that on your "list"... I thought you were seriously considering guys you find super ugly j/k - I assumed as much Link to post Share on other sites
Dimitris26 Posted March 24, 2012 Share Posted March 24, 2012 A guy that cares more about his family and the love of his life, than about his frkn ego. A guy that sees it when other girls are pretty, but will never be sexualy interested in anyone else but me. A guy that isn't stressed out all the time. A guy that supports you when you need it. A guy that 'generally' answers or otherwise returns his phonecalls. A guy that is comfertable with himself, and isn;t insecure all the time wheather he is 'manly' enough A guy that loves me when I'm with him, but still has me in his heart and on his mind when I'm not with him A guy that thinks about my feelings before doing something A guy that doesnt lie A guy that's very sensual and loving. Where can I find this guy???? I dont understand whats up with all them posts in here... This list sounds a LOT like me... yes yes i know i might be the exception... but i do know a couple of lads like me as well... Bear in mind that you got to MAKE it happen for this list... for example... when i see a girl... if she looks like she worths the effort ... i will be like this... but if i meet a girl... wearing almost no clothes dancing on a bar and other people grabing her a*s... well... you get the point... You got to make me(and all the rest of me) to WANNA act like this list. I know most of the guys aint like that... but...i do know there ARE some like that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlatnapolja Posted March 25, 2012 Author Share Posted March 25, 2012 I dont understand whats up with all them posts in here... This list sounds a LOT like me... yes yes i know i might be the exception... but i do know a couple of lads like me as well... Bear in mind that you got to MAKE it happen for this list... for example... when i see a girl... if she looks like she worths the effort ... i will be like this... but if i meet a girl... wearing almost no clothes dancing on a bar and other people grabing her a*s... well... you get the point... You got to make me(and all the rest of me) to WANNA act like this list. I know most of the guys aint like that... but...i do know there ARE some like that. I respect that, that seems fair! I hope I will meet a guy who will WANT to act this way for me, because he respects and trusts me and I can make him happy! brokenTom: Yea I made the list when I was feeling a little angry and upset and saw everything black and white hehe! But Yea of course you'll meet people you find attractive, as long as you dont feel the need to 'do' them then its allright and as long as you wont bother me with these feelings you are having haha! Link to post Share on other sites
hehehehe878 Posted March 25, 2012 Share Posted March 25, 2012 I respect that, that seems fair! I hope I will meet a guy who will WANT to act this way for me, because he respects and trusts me and I can make him happy! you mean u want a guy who will treat you as a slut? you are a slut after all, who likes to see her man eat his own cum from her vagina, right? as you already posted here. ofc you liked it, cause it made him feel good. also made up screwed up in the head stories of you ****in lots of guys in the same time!??! why didn't you tell the people here you got a fetish for 5hit and farts? how you like your man to sit on your face?!!? you talking about respect and trust is just so insulting to the words themselves. why dont u just go naked to school , have everyone screw u so that you will have the kids u want. Link to post Share on other sites
hehehehe878 Posted March 25, 2012 Share Posted March 25, 2012 lol... can't believe YOU used respect and trust. a slut who can flake without a thought talks about such words, how sad. go find a rich muslim husband you parasite, and get on 4 you submissive dog. Link to post Share on other sites
brokenTom Posted March 26, 2012 Share Posted March 26, 2012 a guy who will WANT to act this way for me There are plenty of guys who will "act" that way, that doesn't mean it's genuine. It's sometimes easy to get disillusioned by flashy charm, take the previous poster for example... Link to post Share on other sites
Theresa9297 Posted March 26, 2012 Share Posted March 26, 2012 After 20 years, I guess I've given up on finding another guy. My ex was pretty close to perfect, but he chose another woman after I raised and homeschooled his kids and even put my career on hold and worked in his office. My entire life was wrapped up in his. Can I ever move on....I doubt it. I'm 55 and figure my next move is to a nursing home. I was the wife of a doctor. Now...I can't even get a job as a Walmart greeter. Good advice girls. Call an attorney now if you even think he is cheating or heading towards divorce. I was married for 20 years to a doctor and worked in his office. We went skiing and clubbing. We went to Maui. I stayed home with the kids and homeschooled (My degree was in teaching). I have no references but his. He took everything and quit (was fired for not washing his hands) at his hospital job to work at a less paying job. I ended up spending 3 months at a shelter with my girls. My son committed suicide. The courts said I was supposed to get a job at 50+ and no work history. It's getting better, but look for another man. No thanks. There are no good men out there. Theresa For divorce advice call: 888-727-9257 Theresa Link to post Share on other sites
smallserenity Posted April 11, 2012 Share Posted April 11, 2012 Don't give up. Such a guy found me, initially I rejected him because of his superficial appearance, only after knowing him, I discovered all the golden qualities. Such a guy does exist, but probably do not exist in your typical 'tall dark husband' hunk who made your heart flutter, but the average and plain looking nerdy boy behind the shy exteriors. Link to post Share on other sites
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