2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 Hi After quite a few months - nearly 8 months of no talking and ignoring mainly on her part I noticed that my ex ex has been viewing an online profile I have. She knows I would see very obviously she has viewed it and it is strange of her to do this as she pretty much made it clear through actions she never wanted to speak to me again or have anything to do with me. My thought is that maybe she is trying to get a reaction out of me which I will not give - but what reaction and for what reason? It has set me back somewhat as I did want to be with this girl but for my sanity I had to move on and have been doing so since - and will continue doing so. My mind went into overdrive thinking that she might be getting me to react by emailing her only for her to turn and say well I am meeting someone now or something. just to twist the knife a little more. A minor set back in my healing I suppose but I will keep moving on as hard as it is. 2011 Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Maybe she's just curious about you. Our exes do wonder about us from time to time. You already know what to do: do nothing. Unless she reaches out to you by sending you a message or other forms of direct communication, just do nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Word of advice: don't check who views your profiles. I've seen countless posts saying that the posters ex has been looking at their online profiles several times per day, and it makes me glad that facebook refuses to have that feature. Could you imagine how many posts people would have on here if you could see who views your facebook? If they look at your profiles it means nothing, they are curious at what you are up to and that is about it. unless they directly contact you then you can't really assume they care or are coming back, and even if they contact you it usually doesn't mean anything. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I agree with your last paragraph totally! Try not to read into it OP. Word of advice: don't check who views your profiles. I've seen countless posts saying that the posters ex has been looking at their online profiles several times per day, and it makes me glad that facebook refuses to have that feature. Could you imagine how many posts people would have on here if you could see who views your facebook? If they look at your profiles it means nothing, they are curious at what you are up to and that is about it. unless they directly contact you then you can't really assume they care or are coming back, and even if they contact you it usually doesn't mean anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Author Share Posted July 27, 2011 Well logically thinking it probably is just curiosity. I think it was probably more just to see how I look now as I had new pics up. The worst thing would be to start thinking it means something else as this would set my healing back months. It just got me thinking because after the total silence and ignorance I got after the BU I thought well why would she be even bothered about me or what I look like, especially after saying you'll find the special person for you etc etc and apparently moving on. I think it is best to just put it behind me. I almost feel like deleting my account there but that would look like some sort of reaction and every time I go on I see you know who staring at me! 2011 Link to post Share on other sites
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