Woodlawn5 Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 My wife and I have been going through some bumpy times, but we have recently begun to reinvest in our marriage and spend a lot more time together. I am much happier, and she says she is also. Recently, I mentioned that I would like her to wear lingerie that I bought her many years ago. She did and has done so a couple of times. I bought two new pieces for her (one I feel sure she will like, the other is a tiny bit outside my comfort zone - but I think she would look great in it). But, one of the problems we are facing is that, while I am crazy back in love with her, she isnt quite there yet, but she says she is getting there. A last important fact, she says that I have changed in that I want to make love a lot (she says all the time, a bit of an exaggeration). She wants 2-3 times per week (which I told her I thought was great). I am a little concerned that it's too soon to give these pieces (a satin slip and an embroidered eyelet babydoll nightie) to her. Any thoughts? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
ShatteredReality Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I say give her the satin slip - see how that goes over. It is sexy but most likely also comfortable. Keep the babydoll nightie for a little bit...maybe on a date night give that to her? But see how the slip goes over first...chances are it's the more modest of the two and there is absolutely nothing wrong with a man giving his wife something sexy to wear to bed... Link to post Share on other sites
Try Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I am a little concerned that it's too soon to give these pieces (a satin slip and an embroidered eyelet babydoll nightie) to her. Any thoughts? Thanks! You are her H for gosh sakes. Man up and act like it. Give her anything to wear that you think would make her look sexy. Tell her that you can hardly wait to see her in it when you give it to her. Make her feel attractive when you give it to her. It is all about how you give it to her, not what you give her. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Recently, I mentioned that I would like her to wear lingerie that I bought her many years ago. She did and has done so a couple of times.Before giving her the new lingerie, ask her how she feels in the above, whether she enjoyed wearing these pieces or was she only wearing them to please you. The best sex in the world, is sex based on trust and no expectations. This allows people to be themselves, in their own comfort zone of sexuality which creates a secure platform to leap off. Link to post Share on other sites
Dionysus Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 It is not too soon to give your wife lingerie. Hell, you might want to talk to her about seeing what else you can bring into the bedroom. Link to post Share on other sites
Orianne Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I think giving her the lingerie now might make her feel pressured to have sex with you, and since you've recently gone through some bumpy times, that may not be the best idea. I'd hold off for now--wait until she feels more "in-love". Link to post Share on other sites
Lexygirl Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Um what if tomorrow never comes? Go for it dude ! Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Uhmmmm.... She's your wife. What's this "too soon" crap? Link to post Share on other sites
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