abyssalsmile Posted April 26, 2004 Share Posted April 26, 2004 to all OW do you think that one of the reasons why you lead to be with MM is because of past bad experience relationships where you have been treated bad /cheated on?? Link to post Share on other sites
justcallmesnug Posted April 26, 2004 Share Posted April 26, 2004 I was not looking to meet any guys at all, and then MM came along. We get along great. He's not that great looking or anything, we just get along; that's all I can say. I don't think it had anything to do with anyone I have dated in the past. Link to post Share on other sites
VivianLee Posted April 26, 2004 Share Posted April 26, 2004 I wish I knew....I could blame it on alot of things but when it comes down to it, no one MADE me. I am an adult and I know right from wrong, I chose wrong. I do believe affairs are easier to have and more people have them now more than ever..... Ponder this! My husband is 10 times better looking, more articulate, has a better sense of humor, has more interests and is well read, a better father and has ten times more things in common with me than the other man did....how in the world can you explain that? Maybe I'm just freaking nuts or something!! Link to post Share on other sites
reachingskywards Posted April 27, 2004 Share Posted April 27, 2004 I have always gone out with men who are not emotionally or physically available (drinking problems, workaholics, womanisers etc). This is the first time I've had an affair with a married man. I’ve come to realise that I have issues from my childhood about intimacy and abandonment. My mother was never there for me either having a mental illness and my dad was a workaholic. I guess I just get attracted to people who are not going to be there for me. I’m trying to work through these issues in order to find a better relationship sometime later on. Link to post Share on other sites
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