somedude81 Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Thanks for the fallow up LexiB. One Goal, in her eyes, you might as well be the equivalent of an ugly and fat girl. If you wouldn't date an ugly girl because you're not attracted to her, maybe even repulsed, why should she date somebody that she feels that way about. LexiB asked a great question so please answer it. Just to make one thing clear; nobody, man or woman, is attracted to niceness. You being nice is not a reason why somebody should date you. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I think she's hot and I liked her. What is it I did though to make her not like me? I was nice to her. You're like a puppy..Someone shows you attention and is friendly, you automatically go into "I want her" mode and become pushy. Even this girl TOLD YOU she wasn't into you that way, you're STILL pursuing her. It's time to reflect upon yourself and change. You seem to NOT be learning from your past mistakes! Consider therapy to help you chill out and learn to accept things as they are, not how you want them to be! Link to post Share on other sites
dispatch3d Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 What! Unbelievable! Quick give me the hashtag and I will defend your honor! (seriously I just want the hashtag for the conversation cause it's probably a good one) Link to post Share on other sites
oldguy Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 somedude; Just to make one thing clear; nobody, man or woman, is attracted to niceness. You being nice is not a reason why somebody should date you. In all fairness though, 'Nice' is ONE of the qualities most of us prefer in a date. But then, 'nice' is a relative term. It's difficult to be nice & stockish at the same time. Link to post Share on other sites
oldguy Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 And to add one more thing; prick trumps nice every time. Link to post Share on other sites
Professor X Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 is there anything I can do to maybe get her to hangout with me just once within the next 3 weeks? I feel hurt, sad, and I miss her! Send her another card, this time make it bigger. Link to post Share on other sites
Mark1 Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 If you copy/paste the tweets here, we'd be able to help you better. Link to post Share on other sites
grkBoy Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 So that girl Im on her facebook, but not her twitter, and she has her tweets protected. Anyways if you do a search u can still see what their friends tweet them. Anyways apparently she tweeted about my card because her friends are tweeting her back about it and laughing about it! Im not happy! She doesnt know I can see what they're saying about me. F her! Unfriend her and move on. Done deal. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 I'm not her friend on twitter. Her tweets are protected, but if you do a tweet search you can see what her friends are saying to her, and thats how I see they're talking about me. I did sent her a twitter friend request today just as a hunch to see if she would approve not thinking of the tweets she said about me, just to see what she's tweeting. She hasn't approved. Here is another tweet her friend replied back to her so she's talking about the tweet request and when I texted her about it. My feelings are hurt. Shes making fun of me to her girlfriends and just using me for entertainment. At least she should let me see waht she's saying about me. That's cowardly. Here is the latest reply from her friend. See the thing is some of her girlfriends go to the univeristy Im going to this fall and its a small school so they will probably see me and say stuff around campus about me. "U know u attract the weirdest boys. U might just want to set up tent at the starwars convention you'd be the biggest hit lol" Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 But you might as well be TO HER. It doesn't matter what you look like or how nice you are to her. She's not interested in you any more than you would be interested in a "really fat and ugly girl". Period. Put yourself in her shoes: what you would do if said "really fat and ugly girl" A) Kept asking you to hang out after you told her you weren't interested? B) Kept trying to talk to you after you started to show clear disinterest in further communication (i.e. ignoring texts, barely mumbling "hi" to you in class, her "there's nothing to say" comment from your other thread, etc.) and C) Gave you a gift for noo reason even after A & B had occurred. Would YOU, One Goal, feel stalked? Harassed? Annoyed? Answer, please. D) And THEN sent you a Twitter request E) And THEN texted you about said Twitter request Same question. Link to post Share on other sites
Professor X Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 D) And THEN sent you a Twitter request E) And THEN texted you about said Twitter request Same question. Please, no serious answers, keep the trolling going. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
thatone Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 man i was really hoping that one goal was just an especially dedicated troll but after looking through the links that rafallus dug up, it's apparently not the case. he has had the police sent after him due to stalking a woman. he has had the security staff of a celebrity deal with him for harassing her. he has had the security staff of a pro sports team deal with him for harassing an usher at a game. and as if that wasn't enough he's one of these racist gun nuts. and the worst part, he lives in a city where i have female friends and family. here's hoping none of them are his 'type'. Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Please, no serious answers, keep the trolling going. Thanks! Nooooo, one serious answer. Just one! Pretty please...? OG, you can't tell, but I'm making my cutest, most endearing sad little puppy dog face right now. Got the lip quivering and everything... Link to post Share on other sites
PDPullmn612 Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 I can't believe what I'm reading...he can't be serious can he? Dude, she obviously isn't interested in you and now you're being down right creepy. Link to post Share on other sites
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