Women, why can't you all just come out and answer a question?

[durkadurka]

A few days ago, I was chatting with someone who I dated for a while. We'd simply reached an impasse in our relationship, didn't see eye to eye and weren't on the same page.

 

I received a bitchy email from her basically saying she didn't want to talk about the topic anymore. Granted, I understand that. Basically, she stated what she wanted out of our relationship going forward, and I told her why it wouldn't work. Basically that she can't emotionally unload on me, because it makes it hard to be her friend. I can't be more than a friend, yet just a friend at the same time.

 

Ultimately I got the 'Well I guess this just isn't going to work' message. Fine, okay cool, and then I tried to get a hold of her and said 'Look, okay, I can't be there for you in the way you want to be, I can't mix the role of the guy you're dating and therefore emotionally involved with, with the role of a friend. The roles don't mix. I can't be an impartial, helpful friend, if I'm constantly being unloaded on. If what you're saying is that you don't want to hear from me again, please let me know so I can waste as little time as possible wondering about this and we can move on.'

 

That's great, she was responding instantly to what I was saying via text, right up until I asked for some clarity. It's a yes or no question lady! It's not that hard! Just answer it and let the rest of us move on with our lives!

[Audrina]

Maybe she just got tired of talking about it?

[durkadurka]

Maybe she just got tired of talking about it?

 

So am I. I was just asking for clarification on the last bit though, it's a simple yes or no question.

 

Do you want me to not try and talk to you again, or not?

[sitting]

So am I. I was just asking for clarification on the last bit though, it's a simple yes or no question.

 

Do you want me to not try and talk to you again, or not?

 

maybe you should just give her time? i mean you dont sitt up all day waiting for her to answer you? it may be as easy as she dont know the answer yet. give her time m8 and she will get her head cleared, in the mean time do what you normally do and live your life as normal...