Ladygator Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 (edited) Whiny, whingy vent.. sorry. I feel like such a fraud. http://i924.photobucket.com/albums/ad90/TheGutterDoll/_DSC0653-1.jpg I'm beaming in every one of them, but inside I'm still so, so tender. Looking at them makes me feel foolish. I cry. I hyperventilate. I'm consumed by negative thoughts. I tried so hard. I feel like a failure. I can't make the hurt stop. I miss him so much. Edited July 28, 2011 by Ladygator Link to post Share on other sites
coltsfan1 Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Do not let him take this away from you!!!!! Your pictures are GREAT, you look gorgeous in them post them on "fakebook" and be proud. If you lived near me I would ask you to wear that exact outfit and take you dancing!!! Be proud you will heal! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ladygator Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 That's lovely.. thank-you. He might be able to stop me from ever being happy, but he won't stop me from having fun. Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 That's lovely.. thank-you. He might be able to stop me from ever being happy, but he won't stop me from having fun. The only person that is stopping you from being happy is yourself. It's not him. Start telling yourself that "I am a happy person" everytime you think you are not. Link to post Share on other sites
brokendreamz Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 WOW! I don't care if you posted them for an ego trip - why not?!! Girl YOU LOOK HOT I know it's tough at the moment but once you get through this you will be a better person for it. Oh, and if you ever find yourself over my way, do drop in... I'll make you REAL happy!!! :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ladygator Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 Honestly not an ego trip. An example of WHy THE **** AM I SMILING. **** SMILING A LOT. but it makes for nicer photos, lol. Ugh, 3 days nc after a full year of 2-5 hour every day conversations. Blows. (thanks tho, doll.) Link to post Share on other sites
Shatter3d Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Let's face it, you posted it for an ego boost... so obvious. You got your ego boost... happy ? Link to post Share on other sites
shayla Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 What's wrong with an ego boost when this young lady is grieving the end of her relationship and may feel rejected and alone? What's wrong with her doing something to feel good about herself? I say more power to you! Link to post Share on other sites
brokendreamz Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 What's wrong with an ego boost when this young lady is grieving the end of her relationship and may feel rejected and alone? What's wrong with her doing something to feel good about herself? I say more power to you! My thoughts exactly! Fair play to the girl. What ever it takes people - I would have done ANYTHING to make me feel better. I say post more!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ladygator Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 My thoughts exactly! Fair play to the girl. What ever it takes people - I would have done ANYTHING to make me feel better. I say post more!!! Serves as one hell of a distraction. flickr. Link to post Share on other sites
Shatter3d Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I didn't say anything was wrong with it at all !! Just saying she might as well admit it was for an ego boost. If you've got it, flaunt it I say Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 What's wrong with an ego boost when this young lady is grieving the end of her relationship and may feel rejected and alone? What's wrong with her doing something to feel good about herself? I say more power to you! agreed. i've had pictures taken when i was feeling low. it felt nice to get dressed up and have someone pamper me. to each their own. you look great Link to post Share on other sites
brokendreamz Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Whhooooaaa! (That's english for 'stop a horse!!) You got no worries - you won't be single long!! Infact, I think I might fly over and ask you to marry me!!! Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 (edited) its an ego boost for sure.. but hey she does look great, gotta give credit where credit is due. my exW does this on a hockey forum she frequents and I used to be on all the time. Posts up pics of her all done up so the 50yr old virgins on the site can drool over her. simple ego inflation, pretty pathetic. Edited July 28, 2011 by marqueemoon4 Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 That's lovely.. thank-you. He might be able to stop me from ever being happy, but he won't stop me from having fun. Oh, no way sweetheart. That AIN'T gonna happen! You have such a look about you. Beautiful, yet down to earth. Some wonderful guy is gonna snap you up and make you forget he ever existed. Bank on it. Link to post Share on other sites
Kilty Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Oh, no way sweetheart. That AIN'T gonna happen! You have such a look about you. Beautiful, yet down to earth. Some wonderful guy is gonna snap you up and make you forget he ever existed. Bank on it. Aye - and if no it will be me Who is this guy you were dating anyway - Brad Pitt ? If not you were a million times way better than he deserved silly x Link to post Share on other sites
lovesickmonkey Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 LadyGator, you're stunning. And I also looked at your dramatic weight loss photos. Unbelievable. You should be so proud. Link to post Share on other sites
Finch Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 LG, your pictures are excellent! You look great, and so does your gelding! Gorgeous colouring. How many hh? Also the Ani DiFranco lyric doesn't fit for you - like Donna said, you're going to be noticed and loved in no time. The happiness will come. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ladygator Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 LG, your pictures are excellent! You look great, and so does your gelding! Gorgeous colouring. How many hh? Also the Ani DiFranco lyric doesn't fit for you - like Donna said, you're going to be noticed and loved in no time. The happiness will come. Oh my gosh, an Ani fan? Impressed! Very fitting, though. He may not have been Brad Pitt but damn, he sunk his claws in deeply. Thankyou everyone x Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned_Wife Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 From Gandhi: Nobody can hurt me without my permission. Be proud, you are beautiful and your smile is out of this world! Link to post Share on other sites
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