Memphis Raines Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I try not to go over to the "other" part of this site and stay out of "their" forum for the most part, but still happen to read a few things based on "New Posts" and whatnot. So I guess this is one of those, anyone else less than sympathetic posts? I mean come on, there is some heavy whining of entitlement going on over there from people that are an accomplice to hurting others, and yet complain that its not fair about their MM/MW this, its not fair about their MM/MW that. that would be like someone who likes to beat up other people trying to drum up sympathy when someone hands them their ass. The complain about "fairness" when in a relationship with someone elses spouse. Really? Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I try not to go over to the "other" part of this site and stay out of "their" forum for the most part, but still happen to read a few things based on "New Posts" and whatnot. So I guess this is one of those, anyone else less than sympathetic posts? I mean come on, there is some heavy whining of entitlement going on over there from people that are an accomplice to hurting others, and yet complain that its not fair about their MM/MW this, its not fair about their MM/MW that. that would be like someone who likes to beat up other people trying to drum up sympathy when someone hands them their ass. The complain about "fairness" when in a relationship with someone elses spouse. Really? Yeah really... I notice the same going on over here too Link to post Share on other sites
Equinox Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Feh, personal biases. I'd prefer not to victimise anyone involved in the affair. It slows down the recovery process. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 The cheater who cheated is what slows down the recovery process. Substantiate this as a general all encompasing statement Link to post Share on other sites
YellowShark Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Yes. That one section of Loveshack mystifies me. There are a lot of posters there who have no empathy whatsoever for all the people they are throwing under a bus just so they can bang a married person. It's like a bunch of petty thieves all congratulating each other for stealing money from people, and finding one hundred ways to rationalize it as OK. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Yes. That one section of Loveshack mystifies me. There are a lot of posters there who have no empathy whatsoever for all the people they are throwing under a bus just so they can bang a married person. It's like a bunch of petty thieves all congratulating each other for stealing money from people, and finding one hundred ways to rationalize it as OK. Mr Kettle... meet Mr Pot Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Let's get together and stone them all to death. Link to post Share on other sites
shayla Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Some people care more about their next orgasm than about destroying their family. And there is always someone willing to help them do just that. Link to post Share on other sites
YellowShark Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Mr Kettle... meet Mr Pot I disagree with that little flame. I would never encourage someone to have an affair... and i would never support them in that decision. Innocent unsuspecting people are involved in an affair, (that ultimately get hurt,) and I don't hurt people for my own gain. Call me crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 I disagree with that little flame. I would never encourage someone to have an affair... and i would never support them in that decision. Innocent unsuspecting people are involved in an affair, (that ultimately get hurt,) and I don't hurt people for my own gain. Call me crazy. You totally missed my point Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Those people "over there" feel joy, and pain. Anger and sorrow. They have lives they live trying to be happy. They eat, pray, love, and hope the days events let them sleep at night. Just like us. Link to post Share on other sites
rafallus Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 (edited) Their life, their problems. I don't feel like converting anybody to my (also biased and not more relevant than anyone else's) perspective, at most tempted to have a laugh at them (and frequently failing to resist). Edited July 29, 2011 by rafallus Link to post Share on other sites
Author Memphis Raines Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Yeah really... I notice the same going on over here too really? I didn't know that being betrayed was hurting someone in real life. go figure:o Link to post Share on other sites
Author Memphis Raines Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Feh, personal biases. I'd prefer not to victimise anyone involved in the affair. It slows down the recovery process. I quite agree. but I don't want to hear people that are hurting others cry and whine about getting hurt. Its hypocritical and unbecoming. Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 So don't go "over there". Link to post Share on other sites
Author Memphis Raines Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Those people "over there" feel joy, and pain. Anger and sorrow. They have lives they live trying to be happy. They eat, pray, love, and hope the days events let them sleep at night. Just like us. and not like us, they want what they want, don't give a hoot who they hurt to get it, and then complain when it comes back around to them. adulterers and homewreckers "praying"? they better do alot of it. and if they want to sleep at night then quit f*****g other people over and they'll sleep just fine. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Memphis Raines Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 So don't go "over there". believe me, I try not to. I don't like wiping dogs*** off my shoes. thats why I'm posting "here". they got their place, I consider this ours Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Sanctimonious much? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Memphis Raines Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Sanctimonious much? maybe, maybe not. but better than being scum that helps to ruin peoples' lives. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 really? I didn't know that being betrayed was hurting someone in real life. go figure:o Very seldom are the betrayed never the betrayers Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 but I don't want to hear people that are hurting others cry and whine about getting hurt. Its hypocritical and unbecoming. ROTFLMFAO.... This is too much Link to post Share on other sites
nyrias Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 I try not to go over to the "other" part of this site and stay out of "their" forum for the most part, but still happen to read a few things based on "New Posts" and whatnot. So I guess this is one of those, anyone else less than sympathetic posts? I mean come on, there is some heavy whining of entitlement going on over there from people that are an accomplice to hurting others, and yet complain that its not fair about their MM/MW this, its not fair about their MM/MW that. that would be like someone who likes to beat up other people trying to drum up sympathy when someone hands them their ass. The complain about "fairness" when in a relationship with someone elses spouse. Really? Really. Are you serious think that people will take your point of view, just because of right and wrong? Everyone rationalizes. Everyone thinks they deserve better. I am sure Madoff is furious about his "bad luck" of getting caught too. You think cheaters will be humble and self-critical just because you have a moral high ground? You need to learn more about human nature. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 (edited) Everyone rationalizes. Everyone thinks they deserve better...... ...Everyone has double-standards, Everyone thinks their the victim, the fingers always go outward and hardly ever inward, its always "different" when it happens to them but somehow ok when the are the perpetrator, people have a very hard time seeing the forrest for the trees.... Thats people such as they are....yes this includes "innocent" BSers in these parts of the board too and the origination of this thread is case in point Edited July 29, 2011 by StoneCold Link to post Share on other sites
Lostinlife4now Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 I have been on both sides of this story! But unfortunately "infidelity" has been around before the stone ages... This is just human nature. While I try not to criticize, the older I get I try to study the reason why people feel the need to cheat. I am under the impression that all human beings need to be loved and or needed, paid attention to and whomever is giving or getting it, married or single, it is just the human behavior. Married or not married, don't think it has much to do with it. Monogamy, not sure it is possible for some people. Link to post Share on other sites
Lostinlife4now Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Oh and by the way: I slept just fine at nite when I WAS the BS/OW..... Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts