Cheated on BF but did think I made things worst by laughing

[LickABattery]

I am Shocked at what you did.

 

You baiscally added "insult to injury" you kiss a guy, then laugh at ur bf for crying about it, Harsh much. You have no excuse for laughing at him, it doesn't matter if you couldn't help it, it's not an excuse.

 

Best thing i can suggest is to stop saying sorry and prove that you're sorry, The saying "Actions speak louder then words" is where this saying comes into play.

 

All i can say is give him time, His still probably really hurt from what you did. Don't rush him he will eventually heal over time, but as someone said the image of you Making out with a guy will burned into his head if it hurt him enough to make him Cry and when you laughed at him it probably gave him the feeling that you didn't even care that you did that to him. So instead of saying sorry, prove you care and prove your sorry (Yes, its easier then said then done, but if you show that you care, then he will eventually come around). I really don't think he will be the same with you, but we will see.

[road]

nabely

 

With adults, WS and BS, it takes them from 2 to five years to recover from an affair.

 

There is the motivation to do so because they have already been together for years. They share a home, kids, their lives are very entangled.

 

A 16 year old guy does not have these entanglements to motivate him to get over it.

 

And regardless of prior shared life, or his age, he saw you in the physical act of betrayal with the OM. Those images for some men are too much to forget. It's one thing to find out about cheating another to witness being cheaed on.

 

As much as he liked holding you and kissing you, everytime you now move into him and give him the pleasure of your kisses his brain remembers how he saw you move in on the OM.

 

Hard for any man to get over that and then you laughed at him on top in front of the OM.

 

Ay best you have learnt that you need to have boundaries. And never do this again.

[John Michael Kane]

She's 16. Why not go flame someone closer to your age. Your rudeness and vile has no boundaries. :sick::sick:

 

Being 16 doesn't excuse what she's done. She knows what she's doing, just like when she came here and just like when she decided to cheat.

 

And just because you don't like his post doesn't mean it was rude and vile.

[stillafool]

Well you have messed up that relationship even if he did take you back. He probably had you on a pedestal and you bunge jumped off of it. He will never, ever feel the same about you again. Seriously, don't be surprised if he becomes interested in another girl he can put on the pedestal. This was a good lesson so you won't do this to the next boyfriend.

[Purelogic]

Dont worry...when yo 20 and have met a guy you really like...we will see you back here posting my bf kissed a girl and says is not a big deal , how could he....then you will be looked at as a hypocrite...just saying..if i was your bf and its not such a big deal you would catch me kissing girls all the time...because to you it not a big deal.