AcaciaStrain Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Ok long story short i went out with a girl who was my first love for 2 years. She dumped me in January and said the whole "she loves me but is not in love." But i thought it was for another guy. About 6 weeks after that i was in a club that she happened to be in and she saw me getting close to this gorgeous girl and flipped out and started to cry. She came up to me and said she wanted to be back with and loved me blah blah blah, and i believed her. So I went back with her (Big Mistake). We then Organised a holiday at my nans villa in Spain (which was free for her) and i thought i was in. I still had my suspitions about the other guy cause she kept texting him but she was so adoment they were just "friends". We went on Holiday and had a great time, but when she got back she acted really distant. I went town with my mates and she went. Was having a really good time and at the end of the night she was talking to me telling how much she loved me and wanted to be with me for ever. But that her friends were telling her how they've lost her as a friend blah blah for going back to me, so i went confront them and stick up for her. After all that we went back to hers. The next morning she took me home and went to work and said she'll text me in the evening. She didn't but i got a text of her friend saying "Hi it's ******, ***** can't talk to you at the minute, she's not avioding you but she's in a right state after last night. She can't talk to anyone right now." I said ok.. After not hearing a word from her for 2 weeks, i go on facebook and it says she's in a relationship with the "other guy". And hear i am 3 days after probably being the most confused guy in the world. So here's a little advice. Don't go back to them 1) too early 2) When you have suspicions about someone else 3) and don't listen to a thing they say when they're drunk. Link to post Share on other sites
sd89 Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 I feel your pain bro. Some people are downright cruel. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AcaciaStrain Posted July 31, 2011 Author Share Posted July 31, 2011 A part of me feels like it's my fault for allowing to do it to me, but i was only going by what my heart told me. Next time i'll be listening to my brain. Link to post Share on other sites
reimeivn Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 yeah its really hard to not listen to your heart. but this one, its not about you love her enough or not, because obviously you do. its also NOT about she loves you enough or not, because obviously your heart is yours, her is her, yours is not her, you dont know her, as you are just a human, you are not superman. its about "should you do it". and your brain knows it best. i try just to do whats right, no matter how much it hurts. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AcaciaStrain Posted August 7, 2011 Author Share Posted August 7, 2011 And once again (while she's with him) continues to text me telling me she still loves me, misses me, blah blah blah, I'm absolutely sick of this. Is there an actual mental condition with this women? She's back and forth like a yoyo. My best told me she wanted to talk to me while i was in town i was like why? and he said dunno, so i asked her what's up (I thought she wanted to give some of my stuff back) and she started going on about how she loved me and he was the "easy" option. This girl is really damaged mentally. Link to post Share on other sites
reimeivn Posted August 7, 2011 Share Posted August 7, 2011 I think she is very greedy. Do you get me? Women with low self esteem they want to know that they have plan A B and C at all times. So yeah they dont understand what that means to love somebody. They really dont. Do not mess up your mind because of her anymore okay. Just tell her and everybody that hey I am sick of you. I dont want anything to do with you anymore. Please stop telling me about her, i dont care. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AcaciaStrain Posted August 7, 2011 Author Share Posted August 7, 2011 Thanks for your comments Yeah very true, i havent actually properly went no contact with her. She ALWAYS contacts me first and is pretty frequent, and im at a point where i am completely sick of it and can live life without her. My heart has been ripped to shreds im kinda used to it now so im dealing alot better with it. The only problem i have is i miss the sex lol. And sometimes get lonely in the days when i have nothing to do, but i don't think i miss her, i think i just miss having a girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AcaciaStrain Posted August 8, 2011 Author Share Posted August 8, 2011 Look at my phone this morning to find "Fancy going to Barbados next year ;D xx" OMFG! She's going out with him and asking me that. What the hell is going on? I'm ignoring this bull****. Link to post Share on other sites
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