ginnetteh Posted April 27, 2004 Share Posted April 27, 2004 Hi, everyone I'm need of an advise, I've been with my partner for 8 yr, and just recently 6 month ago married him, the 1st year that we were dating i found out that he had 3 other womens in his life, of course i forgave him, i believe that he was going to leave them, but didn't. Years later went by and he still cheated on me, until one day i got tired of it and found a friend that was willing to share my sad moments with me, i did this for two years it became to a point that the guy that i was seeing wanted to married me and i accepted. i talk to my husband know back them he was my boyfriend what he called me to be his "room-mate" that i had cheated on him and that i was ready to move on with my life with someone who really cares about me and loves me. of course he started to cry, to say he was sorry he didn't know that he was hurting me, he did not want to loose he did everything to retain me and of course my heart fell of for him so ask him that if he really loves me that he needed to married me, he agreed, and we got married in 3 days, after we got married he started to treat me the same way he used to do when we were dating and on the 5 day of being married i found the other woman drivers license in the passenger side, i ask him about and he said that she had a heart problem and did not anyone to take her to the hospital so he took her. until today he disappears from me i ask where were you and he will answer non of your business, i have no knowledge from his finances, everything in his life is a secret, i am trying to be a loyal wife but i'm getting tired of it, and i feel that i need a friend to talk to, that when i have a tear on my eyes this friend can wipe out that tear and make me smile. please help me what should i do. Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted April 27, 2004 Share Posted April 27, 2004 Hello, I am going to be a little harsh but this is my opinion. You made a horrible mistake marrying this man. He is a serial cheater who is putting your health at risk. He is a player and he is playing you. Some people should never be in a marriage and he is one of them. Financially he is keeping you in the dark and his life is a secret. Are you crazy staying with him? Your husband has a broken moral compass and will never change. Contact an attorney and get out of this mess. You deserve to have a husband who treats you like a wife with love and respect which is something he is unable to do. Look we all make mistakes and you made a huge mistake marrying this guy. It is time for you to move on and have a better life. Staying in this marriage and having an affair is not an answer. Do you really wish to spend the rest of your life like this? I wish you luck because your husband will not change. Link to post Share on other sites
capitald Posted April 27, 2004 Share Posted April 27, 2004 First of all you should try and clean up the grammar of your little story here a bit because it gets really confusing as to which guy is which and what is exactly going on. Secondly, no one can tell you what exactly you should do in any situation because you have to think and make decisions on your own, and we especially can't tell you what to do going on this little amount of information. Thirdly, however, if you really want my opinion on the matter I would say go with the man who really loves you and treats you the way you like or you are going to die miserable. (In any case, I refuse any responsibility if you follow my advice or not, proceed at your own risk) good day-D. Link to post Share on other sites
spencer Posted April 27, 2004 Share Posted April 27, 2004 one word = divorce plead temporary insanity Link to post Share on other sites
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