2.5 days nc..

[Dblock10]

I am in a pickle of a situation. need advice.

 

Me and my gf are basically going to be physically seperated when she goes to travel. As it stands she is going in a couple months now. we have already agreed a break when she goes as it would be difficult to maintain a relationship in the circumstances. But since that conversation she has withdrawn all interest in me from what i can see, she wasnt great at contacting me daily but right now i feel like i never hear from her unless i contact first.

 

however when i did speak to her on the phone once she agreed that she would like to see me and have a weekend away together etc... so its like i get mixed signals..

 

so I dont know where i stand really in all this. Its been 5 weeks since ive seen her in person..

 

id like to tell her in person i dont want to loose her, i did want to stay together and that i only said i didn't think it would work cause i was scared and worried she wouldn't have wanted to continue the relationship with me, not that i didnt want to still be with her which is how it probably came across.

 

however if she still wants a break after what my initial intentions were, i'll need to clarify with her what that actually means.

 

id love to say this to her in person as it would come across better than phone, but now im thinking because its been 5 weeks since seeing her, seeing her will open up more pain for me, specially if she dosnt want to stay with me when she goes and it would just be horrible wouldn't it?

 

so what do i do?

atm I am testing the waters, its always me contacting her, and the last time i did was wed night. I havent contacted her since and ive heard nothing.

 

I know she is working lots, but if you want to speak/see someone you will wont you, it cant take more than 30 seconds to send a quick text?

 

 

help

Edited July 29, 2011 by Dblock10

[Dblock10]

4 days. nothing.

 

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