listen_to_me_please Posted July 30, 2011 Share Posted July 30, 2011 (edited) i'm about 3 years post breakup and complete nc other than a add she sent me about 7 months ago via facebook. that was my first love, i was hurt for about 2 years. i think i'm over it now. i sort of wasted away being torn up about that relationshipi. this whole relationship game is new to me. people come and go, you can't make them stay. they either want you or they don't. always run from those confused women. i've had about 8 sexual partners and about 3 semi-relationships but i never wanted any of them. i just blocked my ex on fb, not sure why, i suppose its because i kept looking at her profile. i think my problem now a days is not having someone as opposed to being hurt. Edited July 30, 2011 by listen_to_me_please Link to post Share on other sites
giuliano-3 Posted July 30, 2011 Share Posted July 30, 2011 Yeah, its tough. My friends keep telling me I just need to "bang" a new girl and all will be fine, I'll forget my ex immediately. I don't buy that. I have girls interested in me, still don't have the energy/inclination to date right now. My ex was sort of my first real love as well, being abandoned/cheated on has made it real hard to believe I can ever trust another girlfriend. I know I couldnt' right now. To me, having sex with some random girl just isn't what I'm looking for. I guess I'm torn, I know I need to shed this "nice guy image" and actually take on some alpha male characteristics to have a good future relationship. I just don't want to. F it, I'll be miserable for a while longer until the time is right to come out of my shell. It would be nice to have a girl to share my bed/memories/life with, but I'm not ready. Link to post Share on other sites
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