Open Letter To Men Who Won't Quit Slipping

[TG4MJ]

As long as I can remember, I've never had luck of any sort with women. From my first crush in middle school to phsychopathic abusive on again off again ex. I am nearing 30 and not once in my life have I known what it is to hear "I Love You" from a woman, nor have I ever been in a long term relationship. The small things that committed men take for granted like having someone to sleep with at night, or going on a little vacation together, or having someone bring you a lunch on your lunchbreak, or have lunch with you on your lunch break, or engaging in PDA and having sweet little moments like that, I still have yet to know what any of that is. Despite all this, despite all the lies, the deceipt, the hurt, the abuse, the cheating, the wicked games that so many women have subjected me to, thru it all, I was able to still be a good guy. I never resented women or held them in contempt for what they have done to me, if anything my heart grew bigger after being hurt and rejected time, after time, after time, after time, after time again. In the end, what does it all get me ? NOTHING ! And it makes me sick !

 

Tonight, two men who I did not know and who I have never done anything to personally thought it would be funny to refer to their wives as "b****es who got them on lock down". In utter disgust I called them on their flagrant lack respect towards women who stood on an altar and vowed to love them to the end. I outright expressed my disgust for them, and like typical guys, they responded with the usual hot shot, chest puffing, d*** swinging, alpha male, "man up and quit being a p***y" BS, and I just wasn't in the mood. They mistook my respect women for weakness and, like seventy one other men before them, payed a painful price for it. And you know what ? I feel zero remorse about it. I came back home, destroyed some evidence, showered, changed and went out to pick up some Whataburger which I am calmly enjoying as I type.

 

Simply put, this thread is a message to those who have all the luck with women, yet do not respect them: the beaters, the cheaters, the cradle robbers, the jailbait chasers, the womanizers, the players, the pimps, the johns, the lechers, the unappreciative boyfriends and husbands, I'm headhunting you MFers now! If I treat women right and I don't get to be happy, THEN NEITHER DO ANY OF YOU ! And until my luck with women changes, YOU ARE ALL FAIR GAME ! Thank you, and have a nice weekend.

[mickleb]

Simply put, this thread is a message to those who have all the luck with women, yet do not respect them: the beaters, the cheaters, the cradle robbers, the jailbait chasers, the womanizers, the players, the pimps, the johns, the lechers, the unappreciative boyfriends and husbands, I'm headhunting you MFers now!

 

No. It's not. It's just another cry for help from you.

 

How on earth should guys on here be threatened by your words? This forum is called Coping. Generally used for those who are trying to cope with the pain of heartbreak, which is all you're trying to do.

 

I don't know what evidence you're referring to. I don't know how much 'damage' you've inflicted (on the guys you mention / yourself) but I know you wish your suffering would stop. And how is it going to when you keep skipping along your path of self-destruction and refuse to take responsibility for ALLOWING those women to treat you as they did, and for taking all your pain and frustration out on random guys you meet? The other direction, as I'm sure your brain tells you, from time to time, is to own up. Admit you're a danger to yourself and get the help you desperately need.

 

But you won't be doing that anytime soon, for two reasons: you're afraid and you're lazy. Meh. You'll carry on hurting, then. Way more than the pain you're transferring onto others.

 

Your desperate cries for attention are getting really dull. You'll start becoming interesting / worthwhile if you go cold turkey and take a look at that pitiful reflection in the mirror, instead of medicating yourself with these feeble attempts at power.

 

Take care TG, and remember that girls can be as*holes just as easily as guys but - really - all they achieve is to embarrass themselves.

[giuliano-3]

Akward.

 

Dude, two married guys joking around about the "ol' ball and chain" is very acceptable. Their wives were probably joking around about their "fat, lazy, beer drinking, useless husbands" at the same time.

[reimeivn]

wonder what would have happened if you got to know my ex. LOL.

 

keep being nice, not all women are like that. some of my friends told me that they just mess with the nice guy, they dont love him. so when somebody start messing around with your heart, stay away from her. the girls you deserve will never do that to you, ever, from the beginning to the end.

[reimeivn]

that would be funny his name is dexter morgan.

 

ya if you are not cool with what they say, tell them, if they dont get it, its their mindset, beating the hell out of them wont change that. and if you actually are dexter morgan, their wives, gf, stay with them for a reason, that is its better to be without them. you might never know the reasons why but its better for you to leave them a bf/husband to be with.

[TG4MJ]

that would be funny his name is dexter morgan.

 

ya if you are not cool with what they say, tell them, if they dont get it, its their mindset, beating the hell out of them wont change that. and if you actually are dexter morgan, their wives, gf, stay with them for a reason, that is its better to be without them. you might never know the reasons why but its better for you to leave them a bf/husband to be with.

 

And that's exactly what I do there hun, see the guys here got it twisted. First off, I am far from Dexter. I never saw the show but I know the premise. I'm not a killer, I have too much of a heart. Not knowing how to ackrite with the ladies is what these men do, not who they are. They deserve a chance realize what they are doing is wrong and maybe change it up a little. I don't go out seeking these guys, but let's face it, they're everywhere. I have no qualms about calling them on their behavior. How they respond is totally up to them. They can be smart and process what I said, maybe let it swirl around in their head for a while, and change for the better: OOOOR they could be a guy about the whole thing and come at me all "What you want some of this fool !??!". Unfortunately they almost always go for option B, and when they go for option B, they inevitably do three things: Get sloppy, get arrogant, and get stupid. I can't help it if they choose to do this with someone well versed in knowing how to run the gears on em.

 

Don't let the little maricas talking smack here twist you up, if anything their prolly just in a tiff because they fit the bill of the types I just don't care for and of course they're gonna be all puta chavala about it. These two men were not hard working husbands and fathers who just needed a night out, they were grown men in little boys bodies. STILL out at 3 in the morning drinking, STILL talking about how they'd like to F all the attractive women at the party, they were a little too street for their age, and I didn't like that either, and of course they kept on talking smack about their wives, I mean WTF if you don't like her then why'd you marry her dude ? I called them on their disrespect, they chose to respond with violence, my ability to fight was superior to theirs. That's all she wrote. In fact, I pretty much bragged about my actions on a local website, here are some of the responses from some of the forum's female members:

 

I know how u feel im a single mom and I left my husband cuz he would treat me like sh*t never took me into consideration. He still thinks he can boss me around, we have 2 months that I left him cuz he hit me. That was the last straw, he wouldnt give me money, he would get drunck. I just want to find a guy who loves my kids and me, willing to support us and of course get along with. Just like women out their they r guys the same im 26 so I still have more time to find someone but its hard cuz I have kids its not the same any more. So my advice to u is dont give up some day you'll find ur soul mate.

 

I just had to say I loved your post. I'm the wife of a man who's been unable to keep it in his pants. Secretly, I've always hoped a man would put him in his place, and although it wasn't him you unleashed on, I feel satisfied in knowing men like you still exist. Don't give up and definitely don't become one of THOSE men. And don't worry, I'm not one of those crazy women who put up with this crap...I'm making moves to get on with my life...all in due time. Thanks for restoring some of my faith in humanity. Take care.

 

Hmm, strange, these women can see and actually appreciate the good in what I do, why can't you guys ?

[reimeivn]

just hope you dont do them too much harm. my ex abused me too, and i hated him for that. he might have said bad things about me, and that makes me angry. but after a while, when i am not with him anymore, i dont feel the urge too. maybe you could tell their partner to leave them? that sound like a much better solution.

[TG4MJ]

Chalk up two more for the good guy! House party, 35 year old pizza hut manager who can't keep his hands off the 18 and 19 year olds. Lost a wife as a result, but does that stop him from being a MFing child molester ?NOOOOOOOOOOOOO HE STILL SCREWS ALL THE REAL YOUNG SERVERS HE WORKS WITH ! WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT !?!?!?!?! Had to teach him a lesson about how wrong it is to ruin a child's innocence because HE wants to dip his wick. Friend tried to be a hot shot about it, ended up getting it much worse. Did you all know that if you kick a guy hard enough in the stomach in just the right way you can actually get him to potty in his pants ? Seventy seven men and counting.............. Don't like it but don't have a choice, the less guys like this are in practice the better the ladies get treated, and the better women get treated the better my chances of finally meeting my special someone. The idea of being single at 30 is unacceptable. Most young males from my area are always dead or in prison by 35. I can come to terms with the streets doing me in, but don't even wanna think of the idea of women doing me in. All I can do is continue to maintain my good nature and just hope I finally get the break I deserve.

 

 

ETA - I tried posting pics of the fight(s) that took place tonight but the link is worthless. You gotta have a password to access pictures from sprint. Real shame though. Wanted to let the rotten apples on here know I meant business if you know what I'm saying. Darn.

[betterdeal]

So you like fighting.

[WSeeker]

Chalk up two more for the good guy! House party, 35 year old pizza hut manager who can't keep his hands off the 18 and 19 year olds. Lost a wife as a result, but does that stop him from being a MFing child molester ?NOOOOOOOOOOOOO HE STILL SCREWS ALL THE REAL YOUNG SERVERS HE WORKS WITH ! WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT !?!?!?!?! Had to teach him a lesson about how wrong it is to ruin a child's innocence because HE wants to dip his wick. Friend tried to be a hot shot about it, ended up getting it much worse. Did you all know that if you kick a guy hard enough in the stomach in just the right way you can actually get him to potty in his pants ? Seventy seven men and counting.............. Don't like it but don't have a choice, the less guys like this are in practice the better the ladies get treated, and the better women get treated the better my chances of finally meeting my special someone. The idea of being single at 30 is unacceptable. Most young males from my area are always dead or in prison by 35. I can come to terms with the streets doing me in, but don't even wanna think of the idea of women doing me in. All I can do is continue to maintain my good nature and just hope I finally get the break I deserve.

 

 

ETA - I tried posting pics of the fight(s) that took place tonight but the link is worthless. You gotta have a password to access pictures from sprint. Real shame though. Wanted to let the rotten apples on here know I meant business if you know what I'm saying. Darn.

 

From what youre writting here, its obvious youre a typical nice guy. Treating women good and wants to be treated good by them. Its not gonna work. If youre planing on doing this youre goona be alone for the rest of your life. You need to change your behavior towards women. You have to ask them what you want from them and if they dont provide you go ask some other female. Dont try to be good to them and expecting them to be nice to you.

 

You have to take what you want from them and be responsible for your needs in sex, love, relationship, life...

 

Youre saying you beat up someone. Thats a typical wimp behavior. Normal men dont brag about who they beat up. Normal men dont care what others think of them. Normal men dont feel bad cause they dont have a women right this minute or havent experienced something other people have experienced. Normal men dont go into fights cause they have a idelised world in their minds and need to change this world to match their mind world. That sort of behavior is for mental institution.

 

When you adress your issues, and set boundaries with women, and take responsibilities for your needs youre gonna have women wanting to have sex with you, and to be married to you and to have your children.

[antinko]

You sound like you have far more interest in men than women to be quite honest.

 

And if you do respect women (unsure whether you actually know the meaning of the word, frankly), then I sincerely doubt many respectable women would want to be seen with a psycho who takes it upon himself to implement his own twisted view of justice on other men.

 

It isn't 'right' to say bad things about the one you love; however, it happens for both sexes. It's called 'being human' and mature human beings know the meaning of the saying 'sticks and stones'.

 

I never said anything disrespectful about my girlfriend, but that's just me and my personal standards. I cannot expect others to live by them, nor can you.

 

Grow up.

[Nohbody]

This is LoveShack! Not FightShack!

 

 

Also:

 

Pix or it never happened!!!!!!111111111one

[Trimmer]

Most young males from my area are always dead or in prison by 35.

Based on the behavior you've described, I'd say that you are right on track.

 

I can come to terms with the streets doing me in,

The idea of "the streets doing you in" is faux-romantic nonsense. Along with your trying to sound cool with the euphemistic references to "washing away the evidence" and your vaguely homoerotic tally of all the men you've done. Look, with your behavior, if you get 'done-in' then you've done it to yourself. Don't think you'd be riding off into the sunset with all the ladies of the town weeping. You'd just be another little speck in a violence statistic.

 

And incidentally, the real good guys don't call themselves "good guys."

 

All I can do is continue to maintain my good nature and just hope I finally get the break I deserve.

Yeah, because you sound so good-natured.

[TG4MJ]

Mostly because you are at best a troll who is posting made up stories of unnecessary violence to bolster your own ego, and at worst someone who is deliberately picking fights with guys you are jealous of because they are getting what you aren't.

 

 

Oye marinche, you don't really know me and you don't know about the fools I dropped either so you shouldn't really be making half a** judgements about me or them ok puerco ? Why the f*** would I be jealous of a MFing child molester who can't keep his hands off of little 18 and 19 y/o girls ? Why the f*** would I be jealous of some guy who has a girlfriend or wife yet is screwing around behind her back ? Why the f*** would I be jealous of a guy who's all "I got a b**** for every day of the week" ? And last but not least, why would I be jealous of a couple of punk bitch TCBs who go around trying to pick fights with men, then failing, then deciding to pick a fight with a girl, that's right a WOMAN! A FEMALE ! Taking their shirts off and flexing on her like she was a f***ing man ! Guys like this are like a plague where I'm from, and you and the other viados here are gonna label *ME* the bad guy ?

 

And by the way, to the other payaso that had the nerve to question my mental health, I'm not a psycho. Psychos do not let women verbally, physically, and in one case, sexually abuse them yet still have nothing but love and respect for women. Psychos don't want to be loved, nore do they feel compassion, or sympathy, or pity for others. You all ever hear about that guy who hadn't gotten laid in like 20 or 30 years or something so he snapped and shot up some ladies workout gym ? *That* right there was a psycho. He fired on innocent, unarmed, FEMALE victims who had nothing to do with his issues. At least the charcos I unleash on are : A) able bodied males. B) who actually have a fighting chance against me, and C) are clearly deserving of a merciless beatdown.

 

You all call me a nut ? Hell, bug hunting is probably the only thing keeping me on an even keel. Best case scenario a woman will see past my inexperience and awkwardness, and just be patient, and loving and make me happy. Worst case scenario, a woman will just come along and finish what all the others have started and land me in a jail cell or a coffin. At best I can be used as an example of what extreme loneliness can do to a man. How it can turn him into something he doesn't want to be. Make him do things he doesn't want to do. How it can bring out the absolute the bad in him when he doesn't want to be bad. When you think of it, it's really up to the women I talk to. They can be open hearted and cut me some slack, or they can be cruel and reject me and basically just get me in a twist, just like every woman I've ever liked or dated. Only time will tell.............

[Diatribes]

Dude, you're a Columbine in the making. I hope you seek some professional help and deal with your issues before you go shooting up a shopping mall or similar.

 

Seriously