MissBee Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 i just pictured how that would look...some middle aged guy running around ( or trying to-having his pants around his ankles would probably make him fall down on his rear) trying to catch some young lady ...meanwhile, his wife is running after him , tryimg to whack him upside the head with a rolling pin and a police officer is chasing her for trying to whack her husband with the rolling pin...with the whole thing being sped up to high speed all you need is to have "wacky sax" playing and you have yourself a Benny Hill sketch LMAOOOOOOOO! :lmao: *DEAD* Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 LoveandSuch said: Do not lie to us or yourself, you are a horrible person inside, and you obviously only care for yourself. LoveandSuch, posting "you are a horrible person" is NOT helpful and NOT within the ToS of Loveshack. Calling someone "horrible" is simply an insult. OTOH, it WOULD be helpful to point out the problems with the OP's behavior, and encourage her to consider her role, choices, etc. Also to help her think about how her behavior patterns lead to her problems and unhappiness, or to consider the effects of what she is doing on the BS. Perhaps you are one of those who feel that the best way to wake up someone who is doing the wrong thing is to insult them. I disagree. Even Amnesty International makes it clear that when one writes to brutal, blood-soaked dictators, asking them to stop torturing and murdering the innocent, the most effective letter (and the one that is hardest for the tyrant to ignore) is one that is civil and filled with actionable requests, NOT insults. And of course the OP is about as far from a blood-soaked tyrant as one can get. She is primarily hurting herself, and her misdeeds, IF ANY, are less than trivial compared to theirs. So, please, do your best to get your point and ideas across, WITHOUT insults. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 My last five relationships have been with married men. I'm always angry when they end and I swear I will never do it again. Now I am involved with a married man and his spouse is ill in the hospital. I'm feeling guilty because I don't care. I can't even let myself feel how hurtful and shameful I am. I'm also angry at myself because this isn't the person I want to be. Why do I always settle for second place? What's wrong with me? Maybe it's time to go to therapy and figure out why you keep making the same mistakes and aren't learning your (painful) lessons? How many times do you have to put your hand on a hot stove to realize, "Well, if I stop putting my hand on the hot stove, I won't get burnt!" You have the power to change who you are and make better decisions. Question is, do you truly want to change your ways or is it just too easy to give in and go where the wind blows...... Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 i just pictured how that would look...some middle aged guy running around ( or trying to-having his pants around his ankles would probably make him fall down on his rear) trying to catch some young lady ...meanwhile, his wife is running after him , tryimg to whack him upside the head with a rolling pin and a police officer is chasing her for trying to whack her husband with the rolling pin...with the whole thing being sped up to high speed all you need is to have "wacky sax" playing and you have yourself a Benny Hill sketch Tears are streamin' down my face..OMFG.. Benny Hill sketch for sure! Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Yep. The "best" married men are always running about with their drawers around their ankles, panting after whoever feels poorly enough to give them the time of day. :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
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