StunnaWitFlyIce Posted April 27, 2004 Share Posted April 27, 2004 WHAT DO I DO?I have tried to get the gurl of my dreams but she didnt really respond to me at all. i gave up all forms of love and i want to know if i should still look for love even tho there is a vbery slim chance that an ugly person like me will come across it? Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted April 27, 2004 Share Posted April 27, 2004 Everyone is beautiful in someones eyes. Don't be so hard on yourself. If you feel good about yourself then others will respond -- maybe not the girl of your dreams right now (dreams change too), but stunningly beautiful people have the same problems as the rest of us average folks do. Just because they like someone does not guarantee that someone will like them back. Don't give up on love, but relax and learn to like yourself first. You don't want someone to be with you just for your looks do you? You want substance and a connection with someone. You don't want to be with someone just because they look good on the outside - they have to have something in common with you and they have to honestly care about you and care for you if you are both going to be happy. What you do is enjoy life. Make friends. Grow as a person. Don't give up on love. Take chances with people you find interesting. Love will happen - probably more than once. Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted April 27, 2004 Share Posted April 27, 2004 Well,Honkey is right! Being beautiful does not guarantee hapiness, or the capacity to give and receive love. So just be true to yourself, follow Honkey's advice there and stay opened to people. I don't think it's sane to be looking for love, for it usually has a reason of itsself. Andyou probably know this, but as far as I've seen, it was not the good looking guys that were the most successful onto girls area. It had something to do with confidence, attitude, personality and definetely gift for words. So if you want to impress girls, start working on this area. 'cause even the hottest man can't hold a woman's attention if he's got nothing to tell... I amused myself with De Sade afew days ago, but you can have your pick! Link to post Share on other sites
Author StunnaWitFlyIce Posted April 28, 2004 Author Share Posted April 28, 2004 i gave a poem to this gurl i liked. she rides my bus. it was the first time that i ever asked a gurl out or told her i liked her. she never really said anything to me but her friend was interested in hooking us up. in the long run nothing happend. i dont know if i might have a chance or not. i think that the boy she hangs around alot she likes so im sorta stepping back, cause im not good enough. it hurt cause i called her so many literally shakespearian things. i put a lot of my passion into the words and could atleast think she would return some of the emotion. i was hurt and im not really the type to not do anything i said i wont do so i decided to give up all search of any forms of love if it isnt with her. i just cant risk a repeat of my failing search of love. im just lookin for oppinions and reasons to go on in the search with love when i think i should just stop with the search of a female. Link to post Share on other sites
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