samm84 Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 2 year relationship. We live with our parents - our houses are opposite each other. She cheated on me, came clean and broke up with me, apologized, lead me on for a month or so, then found a new man. Ive cut all contact with her for almost a month now... since she started seeing this new man. We still bump into each other, sometimes i see her with him. It hurts like hell. I was getting better in week 2 and 3, despite still being afraid to step out of my front door for fear of seeing them outside her house. Now, over the space of a few days I've started to feel gradually worse. I don't know what it is... When I first met my her I used to invite her out with my friends and she invited me to join hers. It just seems that over time we became dependent on each other. Me especially, due to finishing University and saying goodbye to a lot of friends. This new guy reminds me of how I used to be when I first met her! Maybe even a better, a more popular version! Me and him share a lot of the same interests, I know that I shouldn't care but I do! I'm starting to feel down in the dumps again. Link to post Share on other sites
mr.goodguy Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 Hey samm, you are in a tricky situation as a result from living across the street from one another. I suggest you go for a run...get some oxygen to your brain. Not only will it make you feel better, look better it will also show your ex you are improving on yourself. Get busy, don't sit Who cares who this guy is...what he looks like, how similar he is. Be you. Improve. Don't look back. The best is ahead of you. Believe in the power of being a man. I remember the days where I would over think what a chick said or did...those were pathetic days...but I learned from those experiences. The ability to let go of a girl is hard but it definitely is the mindset everyone guy needs to get to. You can do it! Link to post Share on other sites
reimeivn Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 i truly feel your pain. is there any way you can go on a vacation or so? or move? the ex will always date the person that has a lot in common with us, unless they used us as a rebound in the beginning. so yes, it sucks, but remind yourself that the ex is just finding a worse version of you to try their luck again. you still you, and you still the wonderful person you ex felt in love with, no doubt about that. Link to post Share on other sites
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