svdk123 Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 Ok...im 21. i got into a relationship with my bf 3 years ago. we were happy. he was my 1st love and we moved in together. he wasn't working at that time and i was a college student...i helped him financially but my studies were never affected. So...for 3 years, we lived together, we were very close. The whole life was about us. We ate, slept, took showers together. He was a "bad boy" before he met me...socialising n having fun. I changed him and made him a better person. Then he got a job n cheated, we broke up. He wanted to be friends, i was devastated but agreed. We had sex and one day, i found out he was sent to jail, for stealing. Although he dumped me, i bailed him out and we were together again. He showed so much love and aprreciation. Then he got a job n cheated again. We broke up and got back together. He said he loves me and was ashamed of cheating, as i was very honest n loyal. He said i was the best lover he had. After 3 years, we broke up 2 weeks ago, cos he cheated again. He told my friends he wants to be free. After breaking up, we never discussed anything about our relationship, but 6 days after the break up, he was in a relationship with someone new. Shocking! I was speechless but i congratulated him. Things went bad when he brought his new bf home, just to show off. I still smiled and said i was happy for him. Then he told my friends that his new lover is the best and he is really happy without me. He told my friends that he wants to do new things and be happy. He came to me and said his new lover got him a new job. Without shame, he praised his new lover of one week, without even mentioning the 3 years i sacrificed for him ( he used ti hit me and curse me when he got angry ). I forgave everything. But its disappointing how he can replace me in 6 days...i stayed by his side for 3 years... 1) I am beginning to forget him, and he will move out next week. But is it possible he forgot me? or just buried his feelings? he wants to be friends... 2) is he on a rebound? 3) How can someone forget all the deeds i've done? I STAYED LOYAL, SINCERE, HONEST.... Link to post Share on other sites
bigmomma1974 Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 He cheated not once but numerous times. you forgave and took him back, sweety hes a cheater a player and he will get burnt bythe game eventually. Go on with you life without him you do not need him you deserve so much better then what he ever gave you. Plus he hit you, what the heck I would have packed his bags and threw them out and change the locks. Girl you will find a kind loving caring man who will be there for you always and for ever. He will treat you Like a queen and in return you will treat him as a king/ Chaulk this up as a lessoned learned, leave it all in the past and move forward. Link to post Share on other sites
Author svdk123 Posted August 2, 2011 Author Share Posted August 2, 2011 i know...but its hard since i spent so much of emotions on him...i want to move on...i want to be happy... its just disappointing..that after 3 years, he replaced me with someone he knew in 6 days.... and showing their affection to me?? thats even mean but i smiled...i wished him luck....yes..he said he is way to happy with the new one.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author svdk123 Posted August 2, 2011 Author Share Posted August 2, 2011 He cheated not once but numerous times. you forgave and took him back, sweety hes a cheater a player and he will get burnt bythe game eventually. Go on with you life without him you do not need him you deserve so much better then what he ever gave you. Plus he hit you, what the heck I would have packed his bags and threw them out and change the locks. Girl you will find a kind loving caring man who will be there for you always and for ever. He will treat you Like a queen and in return you will treat him as a king/ Chaulk this up as a lessoned learned, leave it all in the past and move forward. i know...but its hard since i spent so much of emotions on him...i want to move on...i want to be happy... its just disappointing..that after 3 years, he replaced me with someone he knew in 6 days.... and showing their affection to me?? thats even mean but i smiled...i wished him luck....yes..he said he is way to happy with the new one.... Link to post Share on other sites
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