Just another Boy loses Girl story..

[YuGr.]

Hello everyone, I just checked out this forum and thought, why not. People seem very helpful on here so I decided to go ahead and tell my story, replies or not I still think it'll help me.

 

BTW I'm Mike and I'm 19 She's 22.

 

I was with this wonderful person for 2 years, first real love, longest relationship time. I was dating her younger sister with doubts of if I really wanted to be with her then one day I met 'her'. I had no idea she existed we just met and clicked love at first sight for both of us, first night we made out and everything, next day she broke up with her boyfriend and it started.

 

Everything was going perfectly, we moved in and then I kinda turned into a jerk (I'll admit it) I took the relationship for granted and she was paying for everything, literally. So she finally left me (I don't blame her) for a few months where we'd see each other nearly every week and it was on and off every day.

 

We got back together and it finally stuck without her leaving the relationship last December, and since then things felt like it was going... well perfectly, almost too perfect. Where the relationship was getting quite dull especially with me not having a job and paying for anything when we went out she didn't always have the money to take both of us out so we'd stay home quite a bit. :S

 

Now getting to the climax; exactly 7 days before our 2 year anniversary (June 28th) we were at her house and I asked what she thought of her relationship and how we're doing. She unexpectedly replied ''Sometimes I feel like we've hit a dead end...'' We further discussed with no conclusion, we were both kinda confused as to what we felt and what was happening. I thought of taking a break, so we did. We didn't speak for a few days..

 

The following monday, I find out she went to some guy's cottage with some friends of her's (Old friends, she doesn't have current friends, her boyfriend is always and always have been her life.) during the weekend. The guy is some dude that works in her building and has been asking her out for 3 years and is kind of a jerk who doesn't take no for an answer. She was NEVER interested in him, she never spoke about him and when she did it was to tell me how he asked her out and how she was like ''Omg in his dreams..''

 

I tried speaking to her that day, she removed me from facebook, we emailed each other back and forth with me sounding quite honestly, desperate.. She said that she's realized she does have resentment for me in the past 2 years for having been paying for both of us for everything. She also said that when the time is right, she'd be willing to try again but it's not so she won't string me along. She said she's done and she's moving on and I should do the same. This was by email, on our 2nd Anniversary. How infantile indeed..

 

So here we are, this was June 28th. I haven't spoken to her since, poked her on facebook once 3 weeks ago (I know she checks her facebook pokes unlike some people) and it still says that she hasn't received it (For people who don't know, it means she sees the ''Mike Fxxxxx has poked you'' but she hasn't clicked ignored nor ''Poke Back'' dunno if that means anything..

 

She also hasn't untagged herself from our few pictures we have together. And since last week or so her and that guy are facebook official In a relationship. Detail worth mentioning, that guy is nothing like her type, I know her most than anyone else as she isn't very close to her family, nor has friends it's always about her boyfriends. That guy is nothing like her type of guy in my opinion.. BUT! He Has Money.

 

He's older than her, has a career, his own place, cooks, cleans, has a family richer than mine, plays piano and lives in the rich area of montreal with all his rich friends that's she's now part of.. She also always had a boyfriend since she's 15, she can't be single at all. But she's not a 'sl**' she's only had 3 boyfriends including me, all long term relationships.

 

So that's it, sorry if it's a little long and all over the place.. Where I'm standing now? Well I miss her, I want her back but I don't know how I could TRULY forgive her from my heart that's she's now been with another guy after me like that.. But I do want her back, but not out of pity. I want to work on myself and make her want to come back to me on her own and let it happen, hoping it does.

 

I've been learning to cook, looking for a job as best as I can, wake up early, less lazy, working out, tanning, new clothes, going out. But at the end of the day, I still feel like I'm doing it all for her, and she's not there to see it.. She meant the world to me.

 

Now weirdly I'm hanging out with her younger sister again, which I'm not sure is right. She makes me feel better, but I see her as a sister and nothing more. She's aware that I'm hanging out with her younger sister too and I'm afraid that'll just push her away, concluding in her mind that I am indeed immature or something. (her younger sister is my age)

 

 

So that's it folks, to anyone who's made it this far, congrats for not dying of boredom.. Ironicly, I'm really good at helping people in relationships and breaking up, so I'll stick around in this forum and see if I can help anyone:)

 

Any advice, opinion, anything at all is welcome. I miss her and I do want her back, although it just sounds like an unrealistic thing to hope for and believe in..

Question's are: 1.Will they work out?(He's the perfect boyfriend, but when the time comes he can't be there for her and give 2 *****s like I can and did.) 2. Does she even miss me?

3. Was he just a rebound because she can't be alone?

 

 

-Mike

Edited August 3, 2011 by YuGr.

[smudge21]

I think all the facts and reason for the break up are there for us all to see. You both had issues but were quite happy to not face them and just carry on. Your lack of work and money and her obvious issue with that were a main contributor to what happened. I would take a guess there were other things (there always are).

 

I would suggest you go total no contact and carry on working on yourself. It's clear that her concerns about you can easily be fixed and you're going the right way about it. However, I would never advertise NC as a way to get an ex back - it's about having time to rethink things, evaluate the relationship and ones self and of course to heal.

 

I do question the whole younger sister thing - being that close to an ex's friends or family can prevent NC from having it's true affect, as you're never really NC. Also, being in love with one sister and hanging out with another, I dunno', just seems like a recipe for disaster there.

 

I reckon yes, she does still care about you and yes he is a rebound. However, that's not to say it can't work between them. You have to try not to think about it and concentrate on yourself. You know for a fact that if there is the slightest chance that you and her could get back together it would never work if changes aren't made.

 

Give it a few weeks and see how you feel about it all then. Read some more posts and see what others say too as obviously this is only my opinion.

[dreamscape123]

BTW I'm Mike and I'm 19 She's 22.

 

first night we made out and everything, next day she broke up with her boyfriend and it started.

 

 

 

 

-Mike

 

 

Well, she dummped one guy to be with you dude, and now she has done it to you.... It would appear this new guy has more stability going on.. You need to use this to work on you mate... It is so hard and hurtful, trust me, we all know what that is like on here.....

[YuGr.]

I think all the facts and reason for the break up are there for us all to see. You both had issues but were quite happy to not face them and just carry on. Your lack of work and money and her obvious issue with that were a main contributor to what happened. I would take a guess there were other things (there always are).

 

I would suggest you go total no contact and carry on working on yourself. It's clear that her concerns about you can easily be fixed and you're going the right way about it. However, I would never advertise NC as a way to get an ex back - it's about having time to rethink things, evaluate the relationship and ones self and of course to heal.

 

I do question the whole younger sister thing - being that close to an ex's friends or family can prevent NC from having it's true affect, as you're never really NC. Also, being in love with one sister and hanging out with another, I dunno', just seems like a recipe for disaster there.

 

I reckon yes, she does still care about you and yes he is a rebound. However, that's not to say it can't work between them. You have to try not to think about it and concentrate on yourself. You know for a fact that if there is the slightest chance that you and her could get back together it would never work if changes aren't made.

 

Give it a few weeks and see how you feel about it all then. Read some more posts and see what others say too as obviously this is only my opinion.

 

Hey thank you for reading. That was a great reply and I agree with a lot of what you said.. I saw her sister today again and she said that she told her she's really over me and that she can't see her ever coming back to me. Claiming all these things that new guy buys her, brings her places etc.. but never anything about how he is with her other than ''I hate how he's always on his cell when I try talking to him'' Something I'd never do.

 

I also just found out today, that Electronic Arts just hired me which is simply insane! Every kids dream, and I just got the job! (My first one ever, can you believe that?)

 

She's still on mind a lot, and a big part of me hopes she comes back to me, but only if it'll work out equally.

 

 

Thank you again for your reply:)

[YuGr.]

Any other opinions, thoughts, anything is greatly appreciated!

[smudge21]

Any other opinions, thoughts, anything is greatly appreciated!

 

Yeah, you can tell your new employer to churning out updates every year and claiming they're 'new' games and then having the cheek to sell DLC to us when it's clearly content removed from the finish product...

 

... sorry, just have my issues with certain games companies!

 

Not really got anything to add from my earlier post. Sounds to me like you have a new focus in your life (working for the dark side) and you know what you need to do. I think you may find that once you start this job and change yourself, other opportunities will present themselves.

 

Be warned though - often is the case that when a dumpee moves on and makes themselves better, the dumper takes notice once again. Always keep in mind what happened as you wouldn't want to fall into the same situation again.

 

Good luck, and tell EA we really don't need three Need for Speeds a year!

[YuGr.]

Yeah, you can tell your new employer to churning out updates every year and claiming they're 'new' games and then having the cheek to sell DLC to us when it's clearly content removed from the finish product...

 

... sorry, just have my issues with certain games companies!

 

Not really got anything to add from my earlier post. Sounds to me like you have a new focus in your life (working for the dark side) and you know what you need to do. I think you may find that once you start this job and change yourself, other opportunities will present themselves.

 

Be warned though - often is the case that when a dumpee moves on and makes themselves better, the dumper takes notice once again. Always keep in mind what happened as you wouldn't want to fall into the same situation again.

 

Good luck, and tell EA we really don't need three Need for Speeds a year!

 

 

Haha oh cut me some slack man, it's a great opportunity and it's a corporation they're in it for the money just like me. It's business..

 

And yeah, to be honest I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't want her to notice, I hope she does.. Deep inside I still want her back..

[smudge21]

You've got something good to focus on so concentrate on that. Whatever happens with her will happen, but in the meantime you'll be healing and becoming a better person (even though you're working for EA... sorry, couldn't resist one final dig).

[broken-and-lost]

just keep going man that's all you can do the other guy is a rebound but that doesn't mean they won't stay together.......... and what ever she says about the other guy you hear i'd take with a pinch of salt the other guy at this stage is always great and better then you because it's new and they are trying to erase the memories of you by convincing themselves they did the right thing, but it's rarely that simple doesn't mean they won't stay together because sometime if you stay with someone long enough then regardless the original reason for getting with them they become part of your life.

 

Just try best you can to focus on you and congrats on the job amazing and a big boost to you fella i'm sure it will be great i love battlefield great EA game.

[YuGr.]

just keep going man that's all you can do the other guy is a rebound but that doesn't mean they won't stay together.......... and what ever she says about the other guy you hear i'd take with a pinch of salt the other guy at this stage is always great and better then you because it's new and they are trying to erase the memories of you by convincing themselves they did the right thing, but it's rarely that simple doesn't mean they won't stay together because sometime if you stay with someone long enough then regardless the original reason for getting with them they become part of your life.

 

Just try best you can to focus on you and congrats on the job amazing and a big boost to you fella i'm sure it will be great i love battlefield great EA game.

 

Thank you man, means a lot to me. I just hope she realizes the 'Grass isn't greener' with that guy.. I'd sure like the opportunity of reconciliation to come down the road... But like I've said, I don't want to conflict with her current relationship.. Leave her be. I don't want her back by Winning her back, I want it to be what she wants as much as I.

Edited August 7, 2011 by YuGr.

[YuGr.]

Wow, it's really hitting me hard all of sudden.. I'm starting to really miss her.. Maybe it has something to do with work i just started yesterday or something.. But it's distracting me. I'm getting the stomach acid feeling again. Why?? Perhaps I'm just starting to really realize she's with another guy and she's gone for good..

[Chi townD]

Then so what!! She's gone! She's made that choice. Look, at least you were a man and admitted that you weren't the best boyfriend in the world. She probably felt like you were leaching off of her for so long. HOWEVER, you were able to recongize that, that's what you were doing. But now look at you! You changed your clothes, working out, and got a fantastic job! Make more changes for YOURSELF!!! Save your money, get a nice townhome, new car, save for trips that you can take for yourself. If you want her to see the improvements in your life, you don't have to show her. She's already knows. Ex's tend to find stuff out about us without our knowledge. You chalked things up as lessons learned (learning from your mistakes are key) and now you can apply what you've learned not to do towards your next relationship.

[Mack05]

Yugr firstly sorry you are suffering. I know this part sucks. But for me there is red flags EVERYWHERE..you shouldn't ever want her back..

 

She has problems forming relationships with people. She is not close to her family, has few or no friends. She seems to stay in relationsips until she gets bored and then moves on to pastures new (GIGS). She hasn't grieved for the relationship, nor dealt with her emotions/feelings in the correct healthy way. She comes across as so nonchalant about a two year relationship ending. Moving on to a new relationship is done by people, that can't face their feelings. Therefore they look for someone new to fill the emotional gap that's been left in their lives. This behaviour is so unhealthy (it catches up with you down the line). Her new relationship has even less chance of success, then your relationship..Let me guess at the start she made you out to be the best thing since sliced bread and you felt an amazing connection right? She adored you, right? This new guy is getting the same 'idealization' treatment.

 

What you are doing is, hoping that she comes back to you and that you go back to the good days, when that special connection was so strong. The good days, when things we so amazing and natural. The thing is mate, those days are gone and you can never get them back. You are probably filled with guilt, thinking "if i always treated her good, she would still be with me". Right? Dude you are me! only younger and 5 months later. To me its impossible for you guys to ever be happy. She is emotionally a very unhealthy person. She has no relationship skills (my ex was the same) and to try figure out how a person like this is thinks, is pointless. Her thought process is COMPLETELY different to yours, so to try figure out what is going on in her head is a futile pointless exercise. These people are amazing in the honeymoon period, but when things get hard they bail so fast you wonder what the hell hit you.

 

You have no choice but to let this girl go. Stay NC. No calls, texts, emails, Facebook, Twitter, myspace, Google. You spoke about being a bit of a douche to her before. Unless you focus on yourself and your flaws (no matter how good your intentions are) you will continue to make the same mistakes in your next relationship. I am speaking from experience my friend. I went to Therapy, but I think this is extreme for you. It will make your self aware, thats the best part of it, but I think u too young and healthy for that. You can focus on your faults/failings/flaws) by reading articles and self books. Nothing worse then letting yourself down in a new relationship by making the same mistakes..

 

This time should be about you mate. It sucks I won't lie, but once you have come through it and grieved properly then you will be able to treat the right girl with the love and respect she deserves. Not only that by working on yourself you will attract the right kind of girls.

Edited August 9, 2011 by Mack05

[YuGr.]

Thanks a lot to both of you guys. Replies on here always make me think straight and snap me back to reality. Mack05, pretty much everything you just said is spot on. She did however have relationship skills from all her long term relationships, but everything else is pretty spot on, her boyfriends are her worlds. It's all she's ever had. And gets really attached to them. She has no HER, she changes so much depending on the guy she likes. What she wears, how she acts, speaks, listens to, watches, everything..

 

I know I shouldn't ever want to get back with her, but as of now I do and I really miss her. But the question I need to ask myself, is whether I miss HER or I miss a girlfriend. (Keeping in mind I've never been an adult on my own. Before her I was some highschool kid jerking it and playing cod) Now I'm on my own in the real world without her, and I'm guessing its the girlfriend position I'm missing my life more than her.

 

Thanks a lot for you replies once again. I read and reread all of them instead of checking her facebook

[zebrack25]

Found this on Loveshack courtesy of Bikinibeach, it might help in case you want to check her FB profile: http://bitsotruth.blogspot.com/2011/08/01768.html

 

First off, congratulations on getting the EA job. Focus as much time and energy into that job, it will help you rise up the ranks of EA (fingers crossed) as well as take your mind off of her.

 

Next, I just went through what you were going through. I'm glad you realized to cut contact with her, and I would advise you cut contact with her sister as well. You're going to go through your ups and downs, but in time, you're going to come out of this so much better man. I know there's no timeline to when people meet "The One", but you're 19; just understand that you're going to meet someone better than her when you're ready for it. I would write more but I have to get up early in the morning

 

Hope this Helps

[YuGr.]

Found this on Loveshack courtesy of Bikinibeach, it might help in case you want to check her FB profile: http://bitsotruth.blogspot.com/2011/08/01768.html

 

First off, congratulations on getting the EA job. Focus as much time and energy into that job, it will help you rise up the ranks of EA (fingers crossed) as well as take your mind off of her.

 

Next, I just went through what you were going through. I'm glad you realized to cut contact with her, and I would advise you cut contact with her sister as well. You're going to go through your ups and downs, but in time, you're going to come out of this so much better man. I know there's no timeline to when people meet "The One", but you're 19; just understand that you're going to meet someone better than her when you're ready for it. I would write more but I have to get up early in the morning

 

Hope this Helps

 

Thanks a lot man. Really appreciate it, it does help a lot more than people think.

[Mack05]

Mate see if this rings a bell with you -> http://www.bpdfamily.com/bpdresources/nk_a109.htm

 

Just because someone has been in a few long term relationships, does not mean they have relationship skills. My ex had the same tendencies, too like the things I like, too copy the phrases I say etc etc. I thought it was cute at first, but then it was apparent this woman is not emotionally healthy (nor was I at the time). They project onto you. Because they have no real personalities of their own, It's like going out with the best version of yourself if that makes sense.

 

People like our ex's, their communication skills are atrocious. They are unable to 'relate' in a relationship. Some of these relationships can be longterm cause, they are happy to project onto you as long as you fulfill their emotional needs. Thankfully, I was an emotional mess myself at the time and I was saved ALOT of heartache down the line with my ex. I eventually got to see the wolf behind the sheeps clothing.

 

Being in a relationship with these type of people can be intoxicating, until it all starts to go wrong. There is nothing surer that it will eventually go wrong, no matter who they are with. It can be a massive shock to see just how fast they fall out of love with you. It's a like a child with a toy it no longer wants to play with. Emotionally these types of women have not developed and the longer they stay in these destructive patterns, the worse things will get for them when they get older.

 

Mate time will show you that you have had a lucky escape..She doesn't think like a normal person and talking to her about this is pointless as these people live their lives in complete and utter self denial. Indeed, if you talk to her about this she will end up resenting you. I find it sad that external circumstances have caused these girls to be as messed up as they are. Like everyone they just want to be loved, but you can't help people that simply don't want to be helped..Unless she partakes, in years of tough therapy she will continue to make the same mistakes. She will continue to stay in a vicious, destructive circle. They have too want to break free of this vicious cycle, but staying in their 'dream' world is a lot safer. She is bullet proof there and genuinely believes she is happy. Sadly the longer they stay there avoiding things, the quicker they head towards that inevitable train wreck. Wish her well, but move on buddy. Focus on yourself, when you do this you will attract more emotionally healthy women..

Edited August 10, 2011 by Mack05

[YuGr.]

Mate see if this rings a bell with you -> http://www.bpdfamily.com/bpdresources/nk_a109.htm

 

Just because someone has been in a few long term relationships, does not mean they have relationship skills. My ex had the same tendencies, too like the things I like, too copy the phrases I say etc etc. I thought it was cute at first, but then it was apparent this woman is not emotionally healthy (nor was I at the time). They project onto you. Because they have no real personalities of their own, It's like going out with the best version of yourself if that makes sense.

 

People like our ex's, their communication skills are atrocious. They are unable to 'relate' in a relationship. Some of these relationships can be longterm cause, they are happy to project onto you as long as you fulfill their emotional needs. Thankfully, I was an emotional mess myself at the time and I was saved ALOT of heartache down the line with my ex. I eventually got to see the wolf behind the sheeps clothing.

 

Being in a relationship with these type of people can be intoxicating, until it all starts to go wrong. There is nothing surer that it will eventually go wrong, no matter who they are with. It can be a massive shock to see just how fast they fall out of love with you. It's a like a child with a toy it no longer wants to play with. Emotionally these types of women have not developed and the longer they stay in these destructive patterns, the worse things will get for them when they get older.

 

Mate time will show you that you have had a lucky escape..She doesn't think like a normal person and talking to her about this is pointless as these people live their lives in complete and utter self denial. Indeed, if you talk to her about this she will end up resenting you. I find it sad that external circumstances have caused these girls to be as messed up as they are. Like everyone they just want to be loved, but you can't help people that simply don't want to be helped..Unless she partakes, in years of tough therapy she will continue to make the same mistakes. She will continue to stay in a vicious, destructive circle. They have too want to break free of this vicious cycle, but staying in their 'dream' world is a lot safer. She is bullet proof there and genuinely believes she is happy. Sadly the longer they stay there avoiding things, the quicker they head towards that inevitable train wreck. Wish her well, but move on buddy. Focus on yourself, when you do this you will attract more emotionally healthy women..

 

Hey Mack,

 

Thanks again for this.. Although right now I'm myself in the stage of denial about how she is.. I just want her back no matter what kind of thing and I know that's wrong.. I guess I just want what I can't have. To me there's no body else on my mind than her. I think I miss her a lot these past few days because I'm so proud of how much I changed and how much better I am of a person that I want her to see it. Her opinion meant everything to me, and I guess I kinda want to rub it in her face and make her regret leaving me and want her to come back. (I don't know that I would take her back, but I want to be the one to make the decision, not her.)

 

I need to move on and forget about her, but it's easier said than done. It's just everybody knows how much of a mistake she did leaving me for this fag except her, and I just want her to realize it.. and then I'd be able to say 'No I don't want you back I can do better.'' and move on. Lol, I guess that makes me a bad person in a way.

 

Nevertheless I finally got my iphone4 and it's so hard to not text her. Her sister adviced me against texting her soon because apparently they're doing very well..

[YuGr.]

*Update*

 

Wtf, her younger sister finally met him and apparently she's acting exactly like me all the time around him. Talking like me, saying things that I would say, and just the general mannerisms. What does THAT mean???

 

Also apparently he's a pretty heavy stoner. Which is weird because she never liked being around drugs it kinda bothered her inside.. If I would smoke she'd always say things like ''I hate being around people who's high because I feel like I'm with THEM but they're baked selves.. '' But now she's acting like its soo cool lmao..

[YuGr.]

I miss her.. a lot. I kinda realize that maybe she's the one i don't/can't want to move on from.. I want her back...

[YuGr.]

Update

 

We texted last weekend. 2-3 texts each small talk unrelated to 'us' or the situation of any sort. She' clearly take her time to reply. I then asked so how you been? And she never replied. I went a few days without contact from or to her. Then today i went for a final try and txtd Hey whats up? She never replied.

 

I deleted her folder of emails i kept from her (ive kept every single email we've ever sent while shed be at work. All 4855 of them) an thats the end of it.

 

I'm moving on

[silly_panda]

You are doing the rite thing man... She is just not worth your time...

 

Treat yourself good first... You need to love yourself before you could love other... And now you are just starting to live your life... With your new job and all... Meet more people and start to explore the world...

 

Hang in there man...

[YuGr.]

I miss having a girlfriend pretty bad now.. Especially the physical aspect of it (lol)

I havent contacted her since my last update. She also finally clicked "ignore" for the poke thing on facebook (analgy for her finally being over me?)

 

Anyways.. I jist want a gf im not made to be single lol.. But now its not so much her, im more interested in someone new if that new person is..better? (in a different way of course)

[MIK1000]

I'm in virtually the exact same situation as you at the moment except that I'm 20, she's 19 (as of last week) and that mine went away to america for the summer to work in a kids camp. We left on great terms and had no doubt that we couldn't last a summer of seperation. She quickly turned cold, broke up with me after I had an argument with her because she wasn't in contact enough. She said she would talk about it when she's back and wouldn't see anyone until then but then about 2 or 3 weeks later she told me she was with another guy from her camp but nothing had happened until now. She got home on tuesday and is in a relationship with this guy who lives like a 3 hour train ride away from her so realistically they can only see each other about once a month.

 

Anyway. Like you are doing, I'm trying to make myself a better version of me. When she left I had grown overweight, and since then I've lost about 15 pounds and plan on losing another 15 pounds. I had no job since dropping out of university and so not much money, as of this week I now have 2 jobs! I couldn't drive (which always annoyed her) and have started getting lessons again, and hope to pass in the next few months. I've been buying new clothes, like you and just generally paying a lot more attention to my appearence, something which I neglected while I was going out with her (I thought, Hey I've got a girlfriend, I don't need to attract more).

 

Am I doing in some ways to get her to come crawling back? Yes but I'm also doing it to make myself more attractive to other females. I want to see what kind of damage I can do on the single scene.

 

That's fantastic that you got that job. Does she know yet? I'm guessing her sister will tell her but if not you could always add EA to your facebook work or something.

 

I think we need to not focus on trying to get them back too much. Even though I think about her non stop, I'm thinking about her less now and I'm imagining myself with other girls. I've gone NC for three weeks and don't intend on meeting up with her to talk about it if she asks to (now that she's back home) but I'll be civil if I bump into her (I no doubt will) and act as if I'm over it.

 

Get yourself really stuck into that job, make yourself a real success and you'll find a lot of happyness from that. Not only that but you'll find ladies flooding to you.

 

We'll get through this if we concentrate on us and not them I think.

[YuGr.]

Hey man thanks for the reply!

 

You sound like you're doing amazing especially for three weeks! So far I'm three months in and I still check her facebook profile (I cant see anything but the thumbnail to her display pic lol) every day and same with her new bf, I'll do it without even thinking about it lol. I know I'd move on easily if I'd meet a girl im into, which before I never thought possible.

 

How long were you two together for? Feel free to hijack my thread with your full story haha.

 

As for me I'm not feeling any different than my last update!