Just a thought !!!!

[DSVET9091]

This message goes out to all that have been cheated on, my heart goes out to everyone that has experienced it. Yes I was cheated on my no good ex used every excuse to blame me for his wrong doing. He has since married his long term mistress ( troll ). She also was a friend, the pain is still there and my kids feel it as well. I read a lot of post on here about cheaters and my heart sinks every time I hear of a family being broken up due to selfishness and greed. Survival and strength is all we have left, my kids keep me going. Why anyone would want a cheater as a husband is beyond me, I mean one that has done it for a long time if one does it once or twice thats a different story but I'd still have a hard time trusting. A relationship that was built on lying, cheating and sneaking around DOES NOT last. So all of you that post on here oh I cheated with a married man and don't know what to do well RUN like hell it's not worth it... Do the research, Google it the stats are very low that it will work, if you can' live with your husband than divorce take time for yourself than enter a relationship it's that simple. The kids are the ones that get hurt, every night my kids make commits about their dad not being there for them, he's not there for my son and what kind of role model is that for my daughter. Get the point, yes divorces happen but selfishness can be prevented.