Porshe12 Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 So im not a snoopy person but i was texting my aunt on my fiances phone and it died so i plugged it in and when i was lookin for the fb messages with my aunt i found one of a wall post a girl made on my fiances page. It asked how long me and him had been engaged. No problem...but he doesnt hav but a hand full of friends on fb and the rest is our family. I didnt recognize the name and there was no comment so i went on fb and he had deleted the post and she isnt on his friends list. Why would he delete something lik that? This isnt the first time either. He was gettin alot of messages from a girl named online heather and he never responded to them. He said he met her on fb and never saw her in person but she wasnt on friend list either then after i asked he deleted her from contacts. Do i hav a reason for concern or just over reacting? Plz be honest!! Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 Sounds like you're over-reacting to me. He deletes people whose contact make you uneasy. I don't see a problem. Unless there is information you've omitted I can't see anything wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
perpetual_illusion Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 Sounds like you're over-reacting to me. He deletes people whose contact make you uneasy. I don't see a problem. Unless there is information you've omitted I can't see anything wrong. I completely agree It is possible that they just found him on fb and started posting things, especially if his privacy settings are really lax. I've had random girls friend me on fb and never really thought anything of them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Porshe12 Posted August 5, 2011 Author Share Posted August 5, 2011 These rnt random girls he friended on fb. His phone number isnt listed on fb and he told me he met one of the girls there, but there were not fb friends. He was not a fb friend with the other girl either and why would someone asking how long we hav been engaged bother me? Thats not why he deleted it. Friends hav asked him and he answers. I just found out he has a zook account and that is on fb. So maybe he met that girl there. Link to post Share on other sites
yessy21 Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 1. If he was responding back to them and flirting, then you should be worried. 2. your over reacting. 3. I get friend request all the time and guys message me. random ones. i pay no attention and my boyfriend always knows. i just delete theyre rood post.... maybe thats what he is doing. take it easy. Link to post Share on other sites
yessy21 Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 1. If he was responding back to them and flirting, then you should be worried. 2. your over reacting. 3. I get friend request all the time and guys message me. random ones. i pay no attention and my boyfriend always knows. i just delete theyre rood post.... maybe thats what he is doing. take it easy. ooops i spelled rude wrong. sorry! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Porshe12 Posted August 5, 2011 Author Share Posted August 5, 2011 He gav a randon girl his phone number, deletes a wall post another makes. The wall post wasnt bad. And now i found out he has a profile on a fb dating site, zoosk, that he opened after we hav been together and no one sees a problem here? Link to post Share on other sites
perpetual_illusion Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 I think you need to clarify your story. What exactly was on fb and what was on his phone? Link to post Share on other sites
Woman In Blue Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 Porsche, the minute I saw "Zoosk" I thought, "oh Jesus." Yes, it's a dating site. Why the hell would he put a profile on a dating site AFTER he's committed - and now engaged - to you???? Obviously, he's corresponding with women from Zoosk but deleting their messages when they post on his FB page because he wouldn't be able to give you a viable explanation as to WHO the hell they are. If you click up on "Account" in the righthand corner of your FB page (or his!) a sub-menu opens. Choose "Account Settings." At the bottom of the window that opens is a link to "Download a copy of your Facebook data." This takes a long time to do, I've read (a couple hours, I think), but it will basically bring back deleted emails, etc. etc. You might want to do that to see what you're NOT seeing. Link to post Share on other sites
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