carhill Posted August 8, 2011 Share Posted August 8, 2011 Good on ya for asking directly and you received a less than enthusiastic response to your efforts to show up and ask her out in person. Move on with a smile. She is erased. Link to post Share on other sites
JHS Posted August 9, 2011 Share Posted August 9, 2011 She does have my number. Are you sure about that? Read this: A little story for you to cheer you up: I moved from Berlin to London about 5 years back and one evening, sitting in front of a bar in the hip part of town, I saw a guy walk by who I recognized as an old friend I knew from Berlin. Back in Berlin, he was visiting for 3 months from Sweden, and we only had a short friendship and lost touch when he moved back to Sweden. But that night in London, we thought it was a miracle we met each other again and we exchanged numbers so we could meet for coffee the next day. Same night, I ended up at a club with my friends, next thing I know I am drunk on a bus back home, trying to text my roommate and realizing I lost my phone. I never saw the Swedish dude again. Til today I regret nothing more than getting wasted that night and losing my phone. I really liked this guy... My 2 cents. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Clavel Posted August 9, 2011 Share Posted August 9, 2011 (edited) Questions for the women: 1. Would you let a guy walk with you to the library if you only had 2 short convos with him in the past? 2. Would you let a guy into your apartment if no one was inside? Since she let me in, does she have some sort of trust in me? Is this usual? 3. Do women usually pay for food like that? Does that signify there's something? Was it a **** test or something? 4. If you were the girl in this scenario, would you have called the guy? Are you programmed to let the guy take the initiative in terms of calling unless it's deep, deep into the relationship? BTW, Sorry for the wall o'text but I say an overflow of details is better than a lack of details. EDIT: Forgot to add this part, when we were walking back she brought up how her arm was [minimally] bruised from a machine while making a crepe - I didn't point this out and she brought it forth by herself.. since she's willing to share that - does that signify interest at all? EDIT #2: Not that this greatly matters but she's around 5'7 and pretty good looking, I'm around 6'3, 170 lbs with an athletic build. There are some women that when I talk to, I get kinda nervous and all but whenever I talk to her, I never stutter and talk like she's my equal, I stay calm, smooth and composed. Why are you wimpin out? I thought you said that you've been in this country for years?? Haven't you ever heard of "three strikes you're out" or "third times the charm"? Ask her out again, but only if you inadvertantly run into her. Otherwise you'll look creepy. After all, sometimes people do have plans and as much as they'd like to change them, they can't. Edited August 9, 2011 by Miss Clavel Link to post Share on other sites
Author gutts Posted August 9, 2011 Author Share Posted August 9, 2011 Are you sure about that? Read this: I saw her enter it and she didn't state she didn't have it when I asked her out on Sunday, so I assume she does... Link to post Share on other sites
Author gutts Posted August 9, 2011 Author Share Posted August 9, 2011 Why are you wimpin out? I thought you said that you've been in this country for years?? Haven't you ever heard of "three strikes you're out" or "third times the charm"? Ask her out again, but only if you inadvertantly run into her. Otherwise you'll look creepy. After all, sometimes people do have plans and as much as they'd like to change them, they can't. Can you please checkout the last few replies? I actually did ask her out on Sunday.. she said she was busy that night going out w/ her (female) boss, and then I asked when she's free she said she didn't know, and she would "let me know". I gave her my number like 2 weeks ago and not even 1 call, so she can't be interested if she has the time to be goin out w/ her boss and can't even give me a call anytime in the 2 weeks since. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gutts Posted August 11, 2011 Author Share Posted August 11, 2011 By the way, before we last parted she said she was doing Ramadan so it seems she is religious ( I am an atheist ). Anyone ever date a person who does Ramadan? If so, do they abstain from dating/sex? Could this be a reason at all? Link to post Share on other sites
charagher Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 She likes you, but if she is Eastern European her friendliness may not necessarily mean a romantic interest. I have a female friend from that part of the world that was exactly like this woman. I thought for sure she wanted me, but in the end she was simply a female friend that was overtly friendly from the very beginning. She did things that suggested more such as asking me to go to her apartment as soon as I met her. I was in shocked and did not make a move because she was foreign and somehow I felt this was her style. yeah, i agree with you Link to post Share on other sites
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