Theonethatgotaway Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 My husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for 1 1/2 years. We had a downstairs neighbor (very nice to look at btw) that would always bring beer and vodka over for my husband as gifts. One day my husband was at work and I was putting up x-mas decorations(it was christmas at the time) on the balcony. The neighbor guy came home and saw me, so he told me he had a bottle of Absolute for my husband. I told him that I would let my hubby know when he got home from work, neighbor guy then says he'll just bring it on up. Ok seems harmless enough right? We never really spoke he always spoke to my hubby. So when he comes in I asked him his name, he asked mine didn't think very much of it. While in our apt he made a comment about the couch looking like a bed( I'm thinking O-K). I made up something I had to do so he would leave, and he did slowly. Weeks went by and I would see him now and then. When my husband would tell friends about the neighbor, they joked and told him the guy was only doing this because of me. Not believing it I would joke too. The neighbor moved in early February this year without saying goodbye or anything, so me and my hubby continue our lives as normal. All of a sudden I see the neighbor guy about 2 weeks ago in traffic, we catch up a bit, my name is difficult I would think EVEN more so for someone new to english, well neighbor guy remembered it. So he gives me his number, I give him ours because I'm thinking he wants to talk to my husband. My husband called him when he got off work the same day to hang out, neighbor guy tells him he will give him a call back when he got off of work and never did. Oh well right... I get a call yesterday from neighbor guy asking me what happened the other day, I told him that I thought he was going to call my hubby back. Neighbor guy then tells me he was looking for me. What is going on? Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned_Wife Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 He's prowling you, I'd let your husband know what's up and tell him exactly what you said here. This young man is prowling you because he believes you've given him signals that you are open to him and interested (either unknowingly you gave him mixed messages or he perceives his own version of reality - either way he thinks it's there). I'd cut ties, it's nice to be appreciated by another person like that and sought after but making it clear you are invested in a relationship and loyal is something that needs to be done. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Theonethatgotaway Posted August 6, 2011 Author Share Posted August 6, 2011 (edited) @ Disillusionedwife, thank you! I was leaning toward that as well. Edited August 6, 2011 by Theonethatgotaway Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 I really cannot believe that you are this naive. If the roles were reversed and it was your husband who was getting attention from a young woman like this; would you still be wondering what this all meant? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Theonethatgotaway Posted August 8, 2011 Author Share Posted August 8, 2011 @ Bryanp maybe not, I just don't want to over analyze. Just asking opinions on it all!! Link to post Share on other sites
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