yes Posted April 29, 2004 Share Posted April 29, 2004 As some of you know, I've been in therapy since last August. I love my therapist, it was of really great help to me. Today was the last meeting, and I'm feeling really sad that I won't be seeing the therapist, both as a professional and as a person. But although I'm sad, I'm so glad to have been in therapy - it was one of those experiences that makes life worth living. I know this sadness will pass; just wondering if any of you had similar experiences when you finished seeing a certain therapist. thanks, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted April 29, 2004 Share Posted April 29, 2004 It's natural to form an attachment when you are sharing personal things with someone I think. I haven't seen mine for some months now, because he said I didn't need to, unless I had a major setback. At our last meeting he gave me a big hug, and I did feel a bit sad. More like I was letting go of a security blanket! Link to post Share on other sites
midori Posted April 29, 2004 Share Posted April 29, 2004 Yes, I've had that experience. But we both knew that I didn't need to keep coming, the issue I'd come to discuss was over. It's a funny thing, therapy. The detachment is helpful but personal affection seeps in nonetheless. I think it's normal if you've had a successful relationship with a therapist. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yes Posted April 29, 2004 Author Share Posted April 29, 2004 Yeah, I think it's normal, too. And yes, it was a very successful relationship, I feel very lucky to have had this in my life. And yes, it does feel like letting go of a cozy blanket! thanks for the replies! -yes Link to post Share on other sites
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