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Hey everyone.. maybe you can share ways you have dealt with this .. or maybe some of the women readers can give me some advice.

 

My wife and I are happily married and we have a pretty healthy sex life. My wife just gave birth (a couple of weeks ago) to our third child. We also have a 6 year old and 2 year old..

 

This preg was a C Section so you can imagine that the recovery is a bit different from normal child birth. My wife has been a high risk preg since our first so once we know she is pregnant.. sex has to stop almost completely.. and as most preg women know.. it's not always the first thing on your mind when you are large and in charge and uncomfy..

 

Anyway.. The baby is here.. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel.. but Im so ready for sex it's driving me crazy..and Im prolly driving my poor wife crazy too as Im like an Octopus everytime I am near her..

 

I don't want to pressure her and make her feel bad.. so Im doing my best to let her know how much I love her and can't wait..but I will..etc.

 

So plain and simple..two questions..

 

Husbands: Have you dealt with this and if so..how'd you weather the storm?

 

Wives: What can you suggest what I can do to help her stay engaged and have fun with this time of (expectation) with out pressuring her? I am not sure what would make her feel good at this time.. I know Sex is out of the question..but what can I do to make her feel sexy, etc.. ?

 

My memory is blown as I don't recall it being this difficult with the first two

 

Have fun with this one

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BB.. I am well aware that Sex is not just intercourse I think it's probably more of being uncomfortable as well as what you suggest with the other kids.

 

I know that she's not up for most things.. Im down with that.. but since I can't read minds.. what subtle things could I do to make her feel good..even if the really fun stuff is off limits for a while..