bslchump Posted August 7, 2011 Share Posted August 7, 2011 I had removed my ex off FB, but she commented on one of my friends walls so it popped up on mine. I impulsively clicked her profile...then the profile of her LDR...apparently he's changing schools to the school she's at. So yay, he's moving to her town. Well I feel like ass. Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted August 7, 2011 Share Posted August 7, 2011 Well that will teach you... sorry, but it's true. No amount of advice will make you not look at an ex on Facebook. Only by doing it and getting that sharp hit of realism makes us not do it ever again. Back to some NC for you and don't beat yourself up over the fact you had a look. We all do it. Link to post Share on other sites
DontWorryBHappy Posted August 7, 2011 Share Posted August 7, 2011 thats why you block them. seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted August 7, 2011 Share Posted August 7, 2011 welcome to the stone cold idiots club... glad to have you. that said, yea, block her asafp to keep something like this from happening again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bslchump Posted August 7, 2011 Author Share Posted August 7, 2011 Yeah, I did. For the past 3 months I've been doing so well with it. I never looked, despite temptation. This time it was like "Hey, there she i-OH GOD WHAT IS MY HAND DOING?!" So for the past 20 minutes I've been fighting off urges to text her. Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted August 8, 2011 Share Posted August 8, 2011 Okay, this is how it will go if you text her: you'll send a message, feel really good about the message and what it says too. You'll believe that was the right thing to do and be glad you did it. A few hours will pass with no reply. A day later, still nothing. You'll hurt like you did in the past and you'll regret sending it so much, but it'll be too late. You'll be picturing her seeing this text, laughing and just deleting it. That will crush you and set you back so much. In other words... don't do it! Link to post Share on other sites
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